Attraction to women

[Anoush]

Re: Attraction for men

The idea of something new is always enticing, of course. But one should not let the new be the guide of the old. It is often a reflection of simple minds and it says a lot about an individual when one cannot appreciate what one has. The constant dance from hither and thither to every new stimuli is a reflection of an unstable mind and one who cannot keep stable relationships. But that stems from their own inner instability and imbalance of character. Therefore, be weary of any individual that is easily taken aback by the thrill of the new. The new is not really new, because whatever it is, will eventually be old. It is only in that window or time frame of your mind before you truly know that knew thrill that you associate newness to it. Once that passes and fades, it becomes the same thing from which you were seeking escapism previously.

You 'believe' that every man will be tempted. Sure. Just like every woman is tempted. Just like every one is tempted. Temptation comes in many forms and to everybody. But before one is tempted you must know yourself well and know that which is your weakness or that which shakes the foundations of your character the most and have mystical lines drawn in the sand of "This will not be a part of me." But if you have no moral compass, then how can you ever know whether you are being tempted or not? Ask the vainglorious amongst us who precisely fall victim to these cheap knew thrills whether they felt they were tempted. They would likely not say tempted but "it just happened" or "one thing led to another." LOL. In other words, this idea of temptation does not occur in their cognition.

Weak minded fools they all are.

And this is what all religions and philosophies in the depths sought to address, this idea between taming your animal side because only via that can you gain the esoteric of man's spiritual side. But some people are too base to even realize that and so they are a complete mess in every facet of their lives.

I believe that when one grows older they become weaker to tame their animal side; or at least that's what I have been told and possibly because they are also frightened by death or nearing death. But I think that even if one becomes somewhat weaker, by searching their spiritual and philosophical side and becoming more involved deeper into it then they can overcome and win over their animal side when they feel they are being tempted.