A First Date...

[tortoise26]

Has anyone thought about the fact that all these "facades" can be avoided if you went on a date with someone who you actually already like and just want to know better?

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by tortoise26 Has anyone thought about the fact that all these "facades" can be avoided if you went on a date with someone who you actually already like and just want to know better?

Well, that is if you have been "friends" with them for a given while. Yes those are cases that do not go into my example.

Perhaps I should have clarified, I am only talking about "first dates" in the sense that you have just met the person, through a friend, at a movie, club, red light, etc., and you decided to go out on a "first date".

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by Shahumyan meh, i never change how i am, even on a date, no point, if the girl aint gonna like me how i am, a) why would i be on a date with them? b) if date goes well i wud have to be fake for all of relationship....sod that

You know, you're born in Manchester, England. England is where "English", the language, came out of. I would expect you would at least type somewhat decent.

I can see some of us that dont speak "proper English" might make errors, but you of all people shouldn't.

[Artsakhtsi]

um... the only thing i remember from my first date, that i was very nervous .... what about first kiss? do u ppl remember it?! eh.. funny days

[dstyle]

Originally posted by Artsakhtsi um... the only thing i remember from my first date, that i was very nervous .... what about first kiss? do u ppl remember it?! eh.. funny days

ya very nervous and very figidy lol

[Shahumyan]

Originally posted by Artsakhtsi um... the only thing i remember from my first date, that i was very nervous .... what about first kiss? do u ppl remember it?! eh.. funny days

i was well too drunk to remember

[violette829]

Originally posted by dstyle ya very nervous and very figidy lol

Ew...I hated my first kiss. I dunno why I kissed him, nasty loser! I think I was so jealous that my friends had already had their's that summer, that I had to have mine....YUK! I didn't kiss another guy for 1 year after that because it was soo bad...GROOSSSSS.. I remember when I was done, I was thinking to myself, if this is what it's like, then I am never going to kiss anyone again! But, thank God, I found out it was the guy who was nasty! Anyway just a little thought from me....Thanx for bringing it up, now I can't eat my lunch today! YUJKJJKJJKKKHKHKHKHH



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[Artsakhtsi]

Originally posted by Shahumyan i was well too drunk to remember

Now that's a cheating...it's always easyer when u're drunk

[Aphrodit3]

I agree with Anon on this. We want to appeal to our dates and capture their interest so sometimes it's hard not to conceal our flaws...as shallow as this might sound. I try not to do this (I don't think I really have) because pretending to be something that you're not is too exhausting and I imagine it would take the fun out of the date. I like the idea of dating someone you're already friends with...I've done it in the past and I will continue to do it. It's much better this way, trust me.

[jahannam]

yeah
I agree
first dates suck
but the feeling before first dates is cool
how you get all excited and your heart beat goes 800 bpm
first kiss?
that's personal stuff
I wouldn't share it.. Especially with strangers.