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  • #11
    Re: True Value

    Originally posted by Saco View Post
    Good to hear that

    So when you say "If he stops being the person that I fell in love with", what do you mean? If he changes A LOT or if he changes slightly and becomes more or less a different person?
    No, I didn't mean if he changes slightly but rather drastically. I can't lose my trust and respect because of minor stuff but I can lose them easily if I catch him lying, cheating, behaving indecent, doing amoral things and so on. But of course those are extreme things and the probability that a decent guy will turn into an amoral one is very poor.

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    • #12
      Re: True Value

      Originally posted by jgk3 View Post
      I've yet to date a girl who would own me at some sport or musical instrument or could kick my ass in martial arts. Maybe that's been my dilemma.
      I have a friend who is crazy about marshal arts, particularly about Jujutsu and Judo :-) But she is not Armenian and lives in Europe
      Last edited by midsummer; 02-23-2009, 12:49 PM.

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      • #13
        Re: True Value

        No, I didn't mean if he changes slightly but rather drastically. I can't lose my trust and respect because of minor stuff but I can lose them easily if I catch him lying, cheating, behaving indecent, doing amoral things and so on. But of course those are extreme things and the probability that a decent guy will turn into an amoral one is very poor.
        Exactly my point. Good to know your not a fanatic perfectionist . Example of one? Guy changes his hairstyle, girl politely kicks his ass .
        THE ROAD TO FREEDOM AND JUSTICE IS A LONG ONE!

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        • #14
          Re: True Value

          Originally posted by midsummer View Post
          I have a friend who is crazy about marshal arts, particularly about Jujutsu and Judo :-) But she is not Armenian and lives in Europe
          haha, I don't think I've met a female Armenian around my age who was crazy about martial arts, but one must exist and I'd love to find her.

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          • #15
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            I cant stress the importance for me that my partner knows what he wants out of life. Someone with goals and aspirations for himself is such a sexy trait that is often looked over. Aside from that, family orientated, responsible, good manners, humor and a sense of self respect is a must. Im not looking for perfection as I myself am in no way perfect. I prefer an easy going fun personality over looks but honestly do appreciate one who has both.

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            • #16
              Re: True Value

              I cant stress the importance for me that my partner knows what he wants out of life. Someone with goals and aspirations for himself is such a sexy trait that is often looked over. Aside from that, family orientated, responsible, good manners, humor and a sense of self respect is a must.
              Now that's an answer I never thought I'd get. Good job sad_eyes .

              Im not looking for perfection as I myself am in no way perfect.
              Who is? lol

              I prefer an easy going fun personality over looks but honestly do appreciate one who has both.
              Hope you find that person one day.
              THE ROAD TO FREEDOM AND JUSTICE IS A LONG ONE!

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              • #17
                Re: True Value

                Originally posted by Saco View Post
                Hope you find that person one day.
                As do I, but for now I enjoy the whole dating process before meeting Mr. right as it gives me the opportunity to grow and learn more about what I want and the characteristics I desire in a man. As Christina said in 'The Sweetest Thing': "Dont go looking for Mr. Right, look for Mr. Right now and eventually, if he is worthy, the now part will fall away, naturally." But I see the two sides to that coin, I think that if two people are worthy of each other, then that makes them all the more right in the end.

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                • #18
                  Re: True Value

                  Originally posted by sad_eyes View Post
                  As do I, but for now I enjoy the whole dating process before meeting Mr. right as it gives me the opportunity to grow and learn more about what I want and the characteristics I desire in a man.
                  We're really not that deep.... really. But you're right about letting yourself grow part. And if you and/or other women ever figure out what they want, please feel free to write a book, guaranteed best seller

                  Originally posted by sad_eyes View Post
                  As Christina said in 'The Sweetest Thing': "Dont go looking for Mr. Right, look for Mr. Right now and eventually, if he is worthy, the now part will fall away, naturally."
                  Please don't take advice from movies or television...

                  Originally posted by sad_eyes View Post
                  But I see the two sides to that coin, I think that if two people are worthy of each other, then that makes them all the more right in the end.
                  I won't even bother with that one..... ok, maybe I will. There is no perfect person for you, its whether or not you put in the effort and commitment to make things work.
                  "Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you're a man, you take it." ~Malcolm X

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                  • #19
                    Re: True Value

                    Originally posted by KanadaHye View Post
                    We're really not that deep.... really. But you're right about letting yourself grow part. And if you and/or other women ever figure out what they want, please feel free to write a book, guaranteed best seller



                    Please don't take advice from movies or television...


                    I won't even bother with that one..... ok, maybe I will. There is no perfect person for you, its whether or not you put in the effort and commitment to make things work.

                    There are just as many men out there that do not know what they want just as much as women. Im not pointing fingers at anyone but I know for a fact that I am at a place where I simply will not date men that do not have the characteristics that I look for in a partner.

                    You may not have liked the quote, but I enjoyed it.

                    And finally, where did you get the assumption that I believe that there is a perfect person for myself? Not only do I not believe in perfection, as previously mentioned: I am full of flaws myself! I am not wanting perfection either. What I want is a relationship where there is mutual understanding of each others flaws and accepting each other despite of them. Bottom line is the perfect man is not perfect.
                    Last edited by sad_eyes; 03-11-2009, 04:54 PM.

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                    • #20
                      Re: True Value

                      As do I, but for now I enjoy the whole dating process before meeting Mr. right as it gives me the opportunity to grow and learn more about what I want and the characteristics I desire in a man. As Christina said in 'The Sweetest Thing': "Dont go looking for Mr. Right, look for Mr. Right now and eventually, if he is worthy, the now part will fall away, naturally." But I see the two sides to that coin, I think that if two people are worthy of each other, then that makes them all the more right in the end.
                      Again my friend, I wish you all the best . And I think a person can learn from almost anything or anyone, no matter where he/she goes. Movies and films teach a lot of things as well, trust me.
                      THE ROAD TO FREEDOM AND JUSTICE IS A LONG ONE!

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