Falling in Love

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by SexyAries CK i was reading violette's post about the perfect song and i was thinking Etta James in my head and then sure enough there it was! Love that song!

Story time.........

My boyfriend decided to take me out for the new years since he is broke and couldnt get me anything, (poor thing, he should know i dont care) so he picked me up, blind-folded me and took me somewhere, made me wait and when he took the blind-fold off there were candles, rose peddles, and this incredable view. Then the song came on, my favorite song AT LAST, he asked me to dance and we danced till 2 in da morning!

Love, it is such a short word with such long meanings. Its been asked many times what the meaning of life is, for me its to love and be loved.

awwwwwwwwww. I'm glad things are finally looking up for you! You bf gets like a check plus plus plus in my book. Any guy who can be that thoughtful is something alright. How much richer do you feel now than if he had just bought something? Granted buying things can be thoughtful and stuff too, but seriously guys don't get that the BEST gifts don't come with a high $$$$$$$$$$ price tag...... I'm glad for you =)

[SexyAries]

Thank you sweetheart! I feel incredible with him and i feel lonely without him, so im hoping i will grow to love him.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by SexyAries Thank you sweetheart! I feel incredible with him and i feel lonely without him, so im hoping i will grow to love him.

Perhaps you can grow to love yourself. That is far more important. Perhaps I am getting the wrong impression, but you seem pretty damn lovable.

[felizitation]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs I've never been in love romantically, but I do believe that it exists.

On the other hand, we are, after all, animals.

"You and me, baby, are nothing but mammals, so let's do it..."

I disagree: we have the reason, so we tend to understand what we feel, but we never understand.

[felizitation]

Originally posted by whitelotus ive loved in all forms

but now speaking romantically...

yes ive fallen in love once. i know its love because its nothing ive ever felt before, ive felt infatuation, obsession, lust, whole 9 yards. But when you cannot think, sleep, nor eat without thinking about someone, where you cry, when you cannot imagine your life or future without them, when there name resounds in your head.Its a beautiful thing, but its also extremly painful, it left a lot of scars on my heart, i like the idea but i also hate it a great deal.

We can't understand exactly what's happening on the moment.

Maybe love is defined after the end, when this kind of physical dependence is appearing. You are sad and crying, you simply don't understand why, 2 cases:
- you are in jail and every body is abusing you
- you're in love
Love is a notion defined by its end.



By the way, we can't choose to fall in love. The only thing we may do to avoid such a pain is to live alone, to refuse dating, to refuse looking at or interserting ourselves to other people, ... to lie to ourselves by denying all our feeling.


I have a question:
In what extent love is tied to our conception of freedom ?

[SexyAries]

I do love myself, what gave you the impression i don't?

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by felizitation I disagree: we have the reason, so we tend to understand what we feel, but we never understand.

Did you just contradict yourself?

[felizitation]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs Did you just contradict yourself?

I may speak slowly
I was saying that, since we have the reason (contrary to animals), we are always trying to intellectualise our feelings.

The point is that feeling/passions are, by their nature, impossible to be intellectualized.



Dont' you see any improvement in my english ?

[jahannam]

Originally posted by libra98k men have to very strong emotionaly to control their " falling in love crap".

I don't do this often so you guys enjoy.
LIBRA98K you have successfully proven to be a very stupid person.
and i haven't even STARTED discussing your avatars yet!

[Arvestaked]

Originally posted by jahannam I don't do this often so you guys enjoy.
LIBRA98K you have successfully proven to be a very stupid person.
and i haven't even STARTED discussing your avatars yet!

You are so funny.