Falling in Love

[jahannam]

Originally posted by felizitation
In what extent love is tied to our conception of freedom ?

good question.
might even be in its own thread.
in my opinion, the connection between love and freedom is strong. when you're ready to love someone, you're willing to give up a lot of your own freedom. and freedom is the only reason for people who are "scared" of love to deny love.
and this is where males and females differ psychologically when it comes to love.
males seem to be much more willing to keep their freedom by not being tied to anyone.
Personal Freedom has always been most important to guys.
but in my case, per say, I'm free when I'm happy. and I'm happy when I've found someone I can make happy who makes me happy back!
I mean there CAN NOT be a better feeling. it's just too bad I don't know what that feeling is like.

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by felizitation I may speak slowly
I was saying that, since we have the reason (contrary to animals), we are always trying to intellectualise our feelings.

The point is that feeling/passions are, by their nature, impossible to be intellectualized.



Dont' you see any improvement in my english ?

I think I understood you the first time, but wasn't sure because of the way you put your words.

As far as your English goes, you have nothing to worry about.

And by the way, I agree with what you said.

[Arvestaked]

Originally posted by jahannam I don't do this often so you guys enjoy.
LIBRA98K you have successfully proven to be a very stupid person.
and i haven't even STARTED discussing your avatars yet!

You are so funny.

[jahannam]

Originally posted by libra98k men have to very strong emotionaly to control their " falling in love crap".

I don't do this often so you guys enjoy.
LIBRA98K you have successfully proven to be a very stupid person.
and i haven't even STARTED discussing your avatars yet!

[felizitation]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs Did you just contradict yourself?

I may speak slowly
I was saying that, since we have the reason (contrary to animals), we are always trying to intellectualise our feelings.

The point is that feeling/passions are, by their nature, impossible to be intellectualized.



Dont' you see any improvement in my english ?

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by felizitation I disagree: we have the reason, so we tend to understand what we feel, but we never understand.

Did you just contradict yourself?

[SexyAries]

I do love myself, what gave you the impression i don't?

[felizitation]

Originally posted by whitelotus ive loved in all forms

but now speaking romantically...

yes ive fallen in love once. i know its love because its nothing ive ever felt before, ive felt infatuation, obsession, lust, whole 9 yards. But when you cannot think, sleep, nor eat without thinking about someone, where you cry, when you cannot imagine your life or future without them, when there name resounds in your head.Its a beautiful thing, but its also extremly painful, it left a lot of scars on my heart, i like the idea but i also hate it a great deal.

We can't understand exactly what's happening on the moment.

Maybe love is defined after the end, when this kind of physical dependence is appearing. You are sad and crying, you simply don't understand why, 2 cases:
- you are in jail and every body is abusing you
- you're in love
Love is a notion defined by its end.



By the way, we can't choose to fall in love. The only thing we may do to avoid such a pain is to live alone, to refuse dating, to refuse looking at or interserting ourselves to other people, ... to lie to ourselves by denying all our feeling.


I have a question:
In what extent love is tied to our conception of freedom ?

[felizitation]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs I've never been in love romantically, but I do believe that it exists.

On the other hand, we are, after all, animals.

"You and me, baby, are nothing but mammals, so let's do it..."

I disagree: we have the reason, so we tend to understand what we feel, but we never understand.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by SexyAries Thank you sweetheart! I feel incredible with him and i feel lonely without him, so im hoping i will grow to love him.

Perhaps you can grow to love yourself. That is far more important. Perhaps I am getting the wrong impression, but you seem pretty damn lovable.