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    Is infidelity forgiveable?

    No matter if it happens to u, or someone u know, infidelity will somehow come into play during ur lives. Even though it was happening for ages, it's recently been climbing the stat charts...rapidly. The latest stat that I could find was taken from men who REPORTED infidelity in their marriage: 45% of men..and 15% of women cheat on their spouses. We all know that these stats aren't very accurate since most of the cases are never reported, but imagine if they were. It would be more like 75% of men and 45% women...That's scary.

    I understand that we all have bad relationships, maybe sometimes been cheated on in the past, but I'm talking about infidelity in the marriage. The sacred vow taken by a husband and wife is diminished and there's nothing left but hate and sorrow. It's very sad.

    Statistics also tells us that when married men cheat, it is merely for the sexual purpose. Perhaps the woman they are cheating with does something to them that the wife just doesn't...in bed..Alarmingly, when women cheat, it is mostly because of an emotional attachment to the other man. Now, even though I would NEVER forgive a man who cheated on me, I think it's still easier to move forward when a man cheats, rather than when a woman cheats because women do it with their hearts, as well as their bodies. Men just do it because they wanna piece of something that they never had before (physically).

    I am making bold and general statements. These cases might not apply to all men and women. I'm merely stating what I've learned in the past. So, here we go....let me know if it is something that u all can forgive IN A MARRIAGE...I am not talking about "dating" someone and having them be xxxxxxxs or xxxxxes...just in a marriage....


    I appreciate ur input guys!
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    I have never been married. I do not know. But when my ex cheated on me, I tried to break and she would not let me. So I stayed with her.

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      Ok..Can u imagine being in a marriage, knowing that u took that vow before God (shut up Anon and Adam)...Would u forgive her/him?

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        Re: Is infidelity forgiveable?

        Originally posted by violette829 No matter if it happens to u, or someone u know, infidelity will somehow come into play during ur lives. Even though it was happening for ages, it's recently been climbing the stat charts...rapidly. The latest stat that I could find was taken from men who REPORTED infidelity in their marriage: 45% of men..and 15% of women cheat on their spouses. We all know that these stats aren't very accurate since most of the cases are never reported, but imagine if they were. It would be more like 75% of men and 45% women...That's scary.

        I understand that we all have bad relationships, maybe sometimes been cheated on in the past, but I'm talking about infidelity in the marriage. The sacred vow taken by a husband and wife is diminished and there's nothing left but hate and sorrow. It's very sad.

        Statistics also tells us that when married men cheat, it is merely for the sexual purpose. Perhaps the woman they are cheating with does something to them that the wife just doesn't...in bed..Alarmingly, when women cheat, it is mostly because of an emotional attachment to the other man. Now, even though I would NEVER forgive a man who cheated on me, I think it's still easier to move forward when a man cheats, rather than when a woman cheats because women do it with their hearts, as well as their bodies. Men just do it because they wanna piece of something that they never had before (physically).

        I am making bold and general statements. These cases might not apply to all men and women. I'm merely stating what I've learned in the past. So, here we go....let me know if it is something that u all can forgive IN A MARRIAGE...I am not talking about "dating" someone and having them be xxxxxxxs or xxxxxes...just in a marriage....


        I appreciate ur input guys!
        I think that past 40, "love" (whatever you call business) does not exist anymore. Exlusivity on sex is thus not justified.

        Exclusivity on sex has been justified only from a religious point of view.

        My point of view: kids should never know. The other ones are adults.

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          UH...would u forgive her?

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            Originally posted by violette829 UH...would u forgive her?
            Would I care if i'm not in love ?
            Whatever, forgiveness does not really exists. People forgot, that's all, whether the cohabitation endures or not.

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              Originally posted by violette829 Ok..Can u imagine being in a marriage, knowing that u took that vow before God (shut up Anon and Adam)...Would u forgive her/him?
              God is a dipxxxx and he not invited to my wedding. Satan will be my witness.

              However...

              I do not know what I would do in that situation. If I fell in love with someone so much that I would want to spend the rest of my life with them I would be very hesitant to let the slip away so easily. Then again, I can make the arguement (to myself) that because they betrayed me, they are not the same person I married. Who knows?

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              • #8
                Originally posted by violette829 UH...would u forgive her?
                Only if I was being a xxxx husband and I deserved it. But then again what's the point of staying married if that's true.

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                • #9
                  You guys are too cute!

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                    Originally posted by patlajan Only if I was being a xxxx husband and I deserved it. But then again what's the point of staying married if that's true.
                    Sometimes, when you have kids for instance, their are some responsabilities that make you think you should stay married.

                    Marriage may proved to be like a prison.

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