Is infidelity forgiveable?

[Aphrodit3]

Once infidelity comes into the relationship, things can never go back to the status quo even if you chose to forgive that person. Trust is completely demolished, which is the most important aspect in any relationship. After this, everything else slowly crumbles and soon enough, there is nothing left in the relationship except the history.

I think there was a thread about this in the past but I'd like to raise the issue again. Which is better, cheating to fulfill physical/sexual purposes or emotional ones?

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Aphrodit3 I think there was a thread about this in the past but I'd like to raise the issue again. Which is better, cheating to fulfill physical/sexual purposes or emotional ones?

Cheating is never good, for any purpose. It might be comforting to know that a person is still in love with you and only wandering to look for sexual satisfaction, but really? How good can the relationship be if your partner isn't sexually satisfied? How in love can he be if he's willing to risk hurting you so badly?

[sSsflamesSs]

I will never forgive. As Loser said, if they risk hurting you that bad, then screw it.

[TJ]

let me break it down to you guys, when i get married i will probably "cheat". but it will be a purely sexual thing like you said violette. because if i am married with a woman, there are some things that are just not decent, for example i cannot imagine doing my wife in the ass or her giving me head, i just dont see it as being proper, because if im married then its about more than that. but a man needs to be satisfied and i cant imagine xxxxing one xxxxx for the rest of my life so i will xxxx other women but its either gonna be that i see the other woman 3 days one after the other and that s it, or 3 times over the course of 3 weeks and thats it, so that i dont develop any kind of thing with this girl, just a sexual thing to fulfill my desires that my wife can quench.

and if my wife cheated on my then there is no question, i would definately first off beat the xxxx and then divorce, unless i have kids then it will just be a beating but one that she will not forget. but i really dont anticipate this happening because if i marry my first priority is not gonna be looks, but a nice traditional Armenian girl who will be dedicated to her family and has good values. i mean she cant look like a xxxxin ape but she doesnt have to be a supermodel either.

[loseyourname]

You really should have been a character in Goodfellas.

[TJ]

Armenian, Italians, same xxxx bro. I believe in tradition and values, by the way the godfather is on.

[felizitation]

Originally posted by TigranJamharian Armenian, Italians, same xxxx bro. I believe in tradition and values, by the way the godfather is on.

I want do everything, as "dirty" as it could be, with my wife.

[xBaron Dants]

Originally posted by TigranJamharian let me break it down to you guys, when i get married i will probably "cheat". but it will be a purely sexual thing like you said violette. because if i am married with a woman, there are some things that are just not decent, for example i cannot imagine doing my wife in the ass or her giving me head, i just dont see it as being proper, because if im married then its about more than that. but a man needs to be satisfied and i cant imagine xxxxing one xxxxx for the rest of my life so i will xxxx other women but its either gonna be that i see the other woman 3 days one after the other and that s it, or 3 times over the course of 3 weeks and thats it, so that i dont develop any kind of thing with this girl, just a sexual thing to fulfill my desires that my wife can quench.

and if my wife cheated on my then there is no question, i would definately first off beat the xxxx and then divorce, unless i have kids then it will just be a beating but one that she will not forget. but i really dont anticipate this happening because if i marry my first priority is not gonna be looks, but a nice traditional Armenian girl who will be dedicated to her family and has good values. i mean she cant look like a xxxxin ape but she doesnt have to be a supermodel either.

Come on man...what century are you living in? Just don't marry, yeghav verchatsav.

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by TigranJamharian let me break it down to you guys, when i get married i will probably "cheat". but it will be a purely sexual thing like you said violette. because if i am married with a woman, there are some things that are just not decent, for example i cannot imagine doing my wife in the ass or her giving me head, i just dont see it as being proper, because if im married then its about more than that. but a man needs to be satisfied and i cant imagine xxxxing one xxxxx for the rest of my life so i will xxxx other women but its either gonna be that i see the other woman 3 days one after the other and that s it, or 3 times over the course of 3 weeks and thats it, so that i dont develop any kind of thing with this girl, just a sexual thing to fulfill my desires that my wife can quench.

and if my wife cheated on my then there is no question, i would definately first off beat the xxxx and then divorce, unless i have kids then it will just be a beating but one that she will not forget. but i really dont anticipate this happening because if i marry my first priority is not gonna be looks, but a nice traditional Armenian girl who will be dedicated to her family and has good values. i mean she cant look like a xxxxin ape but she doesnt have to be a supermodel either.

You're a xxxxing idiot. If I had any respect for you before reading this, it's long gone now.

[TJ]

Parce-que tu es francais. Les francais sont tres sale.


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