I have intentionally gotten all of the xxxx-ups out of my system at a young age so as to avoid that very thing. I will not be having any mid-life crises.
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Re: marriage
Originally posted by whitelotus what are youre ideas on Marriage?
do you really care about some stupid paper that says you are married?
i personally dont give a xxxx if i have a paper telling me i am married. If i love someone and he loves me back....some stupid ring, wedding recception or paper doesnt mean anything.
two people can love one another, live with one another and have children..without some xxxxing paper making a difference in there lives.
does it really matter?
personally a piece of paper doesnt change the fact that i love a certain person and they love me.
but sadly society looks down on people who live with one another and have children, who arent married... they care about stupid xxxx like this.
whats kind of sad is that some people marry for a wedding party lol.
does the party matter or the person you are married to ?
all shallow xxxx if you ask me
in the end does youre love matter or does a stupid ring matter ? or a paper ?
ps. emil does this belong in love and romance ?
Didn't anyone inform you that the purpose of language is to articulate meaning, and not just to convey a general sense of nervous distress?
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Originally posted by violette829 Uh..I don't know and frankly, I don't care about what others get married for, but to me, marriage is a sacred vow taken by 2 people, in front of God (church ceremony), ur friends, family....and it means everything to me. I don't give a xxxx about the paper, it is there because of people like u guys, who don't really take it all that seriously. In America, people get married for the wrong reasons. Here's a little statistic for u people who want to just "live" with a person. First of all, no matter what u do, in California, if u live with a person for 7 years, you are LEGALLY married!!!!! Second, people who live together, and lets say later on, decide to get married....have a 86% divorce rate. That, u can see is much higher than the 50% that regular people have. Soooo, I don't understand how you can live with a man, knowing that he is not your husband. Do you plan to have kids with this man? If so, what the xxxx are u gonna tell them? LOL See, this is what is going wrong with society. Instead of being so xxxxin "modern", why don't we take family life, or at least some aspects of it, and bring it forth to apply to us now?
And about the guy having to pay for everything, uh, I dunno about u, but u should marry a girl who is willing to work with u to pay for the wedding together. Not all Armenian girls are money hungry Emil. My cousin and her husband paid for the wedding together. This is why she can be proud that she contributed to everything in the marriage and in her life.
Nuff said!
Vi
Well said!
There is not matter of paper but for lifetime committement!
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Originally posted by Anonymouse Marriage is just a bourgeois tool to control you and you've bought into it.
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Originally posted by loseyourname After I have blatantly stated that I virutally no respect for the institution of marriage, you still say that? Do you even bother to read anything I write before you respond to this misconception of me you have in your head, or has all the Mary Jane just fried your circuits to the point where you can't comprehend what I'm saying?Achkerov kute.
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