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  • #41
    Re: Armenian woman identity/role

    Originally posted by Tali View Post
    advocating my agenda... that sounds like i'm running for President.
    Well, I'm just following forum rules. You are getting off topic in this thread, so I created another thread which is entirely on-topic and lets you vent about how much you hate me b/c i'm bisexual. so, the choice you have isn't whether you like or dislike (you've made it obvious you dislike) my bisexuality, it's whether or not you'll obey forum rules.
    I don't find it appropriate to discuss the Armenian woman identity/role topic with you. All the best.

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    • #42
      Re: Armenian woman identity/role

      Originally posted by gegev View Post
      I don't find it appropriate to discuss the Armenian woman identity/role topic with you. All the best.
      Gegev, you never cease to amaze me. You're incredibly intriguing.

      There is a simple solution to your statement: don't post
      I asked others, who gave me a whole magnitude of suggestions and ideas on the questions I asked.
      I am quite obviously never going to be an Armenian woman. However, for my boyfriend's sake, I am trying. The fine line comes with balancing. His immediate family (his parents, siblings and himself) and some of his family (cousins) are aware I am bisexual. They have accepted that. They still ask of me to learn how to cook (even if it's not Armenian food) and how to speak their language (Western Armenian).

      That is why I started this thread. If you want to comment on that, great! If you want to continue badgering me about being bisexual then I created a thread for you to do so. That way, the rest of the forum doesn't have to keep reading all over the place about how much you think i'm subhuman b/c i'm bisexual. I don't care if you disrespect me, I do care that you blindly are disrespecting other people.

      Obviously, if people don't want to read about the "issue" of my bisexuality, they won't read that thread. Let us keep it that way instead of turning people off to reading all sorts of threads because there might be a chance of you commenting on my bisexuality elsewhere, where it is not intended to be discussed.

      I am not going to insult you or elsewise. You have proven to be a very thoughtful and intelligent person via your other posts and threads. Please continue to uphold your own image. Thank you.

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      • #43
        Re: Armenian woman identity/role

        Originally posted by Tali View Post
        Gegev, you never cease to amaze me. You're incredibly intriguing.

        There is a simple solution to your statement: don't post
        I asked others, who gave me a whole magnitude of suggestions and ideas on the questions I asked.
        I am quite obviously never going to be an Armenian woman. However, for my boyfriend's sake, I am trying. The fine line comes with balancing. His immediate family (his parents, siblings and himself) and some of his family (cousins) are aware I am bisexual. They have accepted that. They still ask of me to learn how to cook (even if it's not Armenian food) and how to speak their language (Western Armenian).

        That is why I started this thread. If you want to comment on that, great! If you want to continue badgering me about being bisexual then I created a thread for you to do so. That way, the rest of the forum doesn't have to keep reading all over the place about how much you think i'm subhuman b/c i'm bisexual. I don't care if you disrespect me, I do care that you blindly are disrespecting other people.

        Obviously, if people don't want to read about the "issue" of my bisexuality, they won't read that thread. Let us keep it that way instead of turning people off to reading all sorts of threads because there might be a chance of you commenting on my bisexuality elsewhere, where it is not intended to be discussed.

        I am not going to insult you or elsewise. You have proven to be a very thoughtful and intelligent person via your other posts and threads. Please continue to uphold your own image. Thank you.
        what you are bisexual??? Good luck with trying to be an "Armenian" women, bisexual mothers don't really fit into our conception of Armenian family. Your man isn't bisexual too, right?
        Մեկ Ազգ, Մեկ Մշակույթ
        ---
        "Western Assimilation is the greatest threat to the Armenian nation since the Armenian Genocide."

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        • #44
          Re: Armenian woman identity/role

          .
          Armenian woman identity role?
          Try this one.



          First time I have heard her speak.
          She sounds like a good role model.
          Politics is not about the pursuit of morality nor what's right or wrong
          Its about self interest at personal and national level often at odds with the above.
          Great politicians pursue the National interest and small politicians personal interests

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          • #45
            Re: Armenian woman identity/role

            Originally posted by Mos View Post
            what you are bisexual??? Good luck with trying to be an "Armenian" women, bisexual mothers don't really fit into our conception of Armenian family. Your man isn't bisexual too, right?
            Yes, I'm well aware of this that many Armenians are very...hmm... reserved when it comes to accepting people of other sexual orientations. However, none of his family has an issue with me (most likely b/c i'm not the only one in the family).

            no, my boyfriend is not bisexual.

            Originally posted by londontsi View Post
            .
            Armenian woman identity role?
            Try this one.



            First time I have heard her speak.
            She sounds like a good role model.
            Sorry lodontsi, but I don't speak the language yet. Is that Eastern or Western Armenian?

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            • #46
              Re: Armenian woman identity/role

              She is a very popular singer, Hayantantsi and lives in Armenia.

              Its a pity you cannot understand her.


              p.s. I suspect even if you understood her language you would not have been able to understand her.
              In the same way I cannot understand you.
              Last edited by londontsi; 02-15-2011, 01:03 AM.
              Politics is not about the pursuit of morality nor what's right or wrong
              Its about self interest at personal and national level often at odds with the above.
              Great politicians pursue the National interest and small politicians personal interests

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              • #47
                Re: Armenian woman identity/role

                Originally posted by londontsi View Post
                She is a very popular singer, Hayantantsi and lives in Armenia.

                Its a pity you cannot understand her.


                p.s. I suspect even if you understood her language you would not have been able to understand her.
                In the same way I cannot understand you.
                I was actually aware that she was a singer. I have people who are willing to translate for me, but I just need to know which dialect she speaks. I'm sure they can guess if I just hand it over.

                Though, from your other posts directed at me, I'm sure it's meant as an insult. But oh well, you are you and I am me. I will not insult you. My parents raised me better than that.

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