Age difference in relationships

[Artashes]

Re: Age difference in relationships

If you can tell me why a 63 yr old man is any different than a 23 yr old man when a woman is just looking for a good time while strolling through her phases of a meaningless life then I've got a cookie for you.

Exactly what kind of a cookie are are you offering?
Smiles from somewhere close to the arctic circle.
Artashes

[MrHyeSev]

Re: Age difference in relationships

Out of curiosity, how do you know what the difference is?

Something called common sense

[Artashes]

Re: Age difference in relationships

Thanks for exhibiting an intelect. Light in very dark places is comforting.
If I can ever get home the beers and a big pile of peelav is on me.
Artashes

Ditto to Kanada hye
Artashes

[Artashes]

Re: Age difference in relationships

Artashes, the original post and subsequent replies seem to be simple trolling exercises to enable some kind of shock and awe. I'll repeat that you certainly seem like the kind of guy to share a beer with. And I would share your comments in answer to the original question.
I still have a headful of hair, though staring to slat & pepper round the sideburns too, age difference between male/female has to be taken into account for any relationship, short, medium or long term. An older person, male or female, shouldn't ever hit on younger people and if they are the object of " a hit" need to consider many things carefully. As an 18 yr old, I had my Mrs Robinson moment, and felt and still feel that the experience was worthwhile. However I also feel that under-20s should be for under-20s. A few years ago I was hit on a girl who was 19 years my junior.................I didn't succumb to baser instincts, perhaps others might have.
Generally I was grow older, age differences diminish, to a point as you explain quite nicely regards shared experience/aspirations/activities etc.

Still think we should share a beer!

Thanks for exhibiting an intelect. Light in very dark places is comforting.
If I can ever get home the beers and a big pile of peelav is on me.
Artashes

[KanadaHye]

Re: Age difference in relationships

I'll let you answer that one yourself, if you don't know what the difference is

Out of curiosity, how do you know what the difference is?

[hrai]

Re: Age difference in relationships

What in the world are you talking about? My 20 year old girl? How long I last? 20 year old girls have so little life experience that to relate to them in a shared personal relationship of companionship is empty for me. Are you sure you read my posts?
Artashes

Artashes, the original post and subsequent replies seem to be simple trolling exercises to enable some kind of shock and awe. I'll repeat that you certainly seem like the kind of guy to share a beer with. And I would share your comments in answer to the original question.
I still have a headful of hair, though staring to slat & pepper round the sideburns too, age difference between male/female has to be taken into account for any relationship, short, medium or long term. An older person, male or female, shouldn't ever hit on younger people and if they are the object of " a hit" need to consider many things carefully. As an 18 yr old, I had my Mrs Robinson moment, and felt and still feel that the experience was worthwhile. However I also feel that under-20s should be for under-20s. A few years ago I was hit on a girl who was 19 years my junior.................I didn't succumb to baser instincts, perhaps others might have.
Generally I was grow older, age differences diminish, to a point as you explain quite nicely regards shared experience/aspirations/activities etc.

Still think we should share a beer!

[Artashes]

Re: Age difference in relationships

Ok bro go ind your 20 year old girl & let's see how long you will lasrt

What in the world are you talking about? My 20 year old girl? How long I last? 20 year old girls have so little life experience that to relate to them in a shared personal relationship of companionship is empty for me. Are you sure you read my posts?
Artashes

[Artashes]

Re: Age difference in relationships

Nice answers and the lack of rancor makes the exchange of thoughts pleasant.
The acceptable mores of these modern times is radically different than the ancient(but meritorious ) code of conduct for man/ woman relationship. These modern times seem very condensed as if every one is in a hurry. Initially romance was not the goal that was being sought. The simple meeting of a man and a woman had it own merit and was truly an interesting and desirable social activity. An old saying : men fall in love with their eyes and woman fall in love with their ears. Sorry have to go
Artashes

Anyway to address your question --- usually the ages are relatively close. Any where in a 5 year radius is most common, but it's not set in stone. Commonly because of shared interest and experience with shared time frame of life experience. But shared interest can transcend that so one cannot use that as an absolute.
Like wise it is usually the shared interest of the age commonality that makes it most common for the ages to be relatively close. What's not appropriate is for men(most common) or women(not common) to pursue the younger(hit on) for their youth.
Any way that's my opinion.
Artashes

[Artashes]

Re: Age difference in relationships

A bit more than just sex. More like long-term romantic connection, often resulting in or eventually pursuing a possibility of marriage.

Nice answers and the lack of rancor makes the exchange of thoughts pleasant.
The acceptable mores of these modern times is radically different than the ancient(but meritorious ) code of conduct for man/ woman relationship. These modern times seem very condensed as if every one is in a hurry. Initially romance was not the goal that was being sought. The simple meeting of a man and a woman had it own merit and was truly an interesting and desirable social activity. An old saying : men fall in love with their eyes and woman fall in love with their ears. Sorry have to go
Artashes

[MrHyeSev]

Re: Age difference in relationships

Did you read the post you quoted? I used 20 to indicate no teenagers and by common sense inference no children. You put words in my mouth by saying by saying "I find it normal". You don't speak for me. You don't represent me. And it appears you are the one with major issues and you need to grow up.
Artashes

Ok bro go ind your 20 year old girl & let's see how long you will lasrt