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Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

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  • #11
    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    22 is the best age to REALLY start going to school. But if you are stopping education at 22, it is the best time to live on your own ... travel around .. see the world ... give yourself a chance to find out what you really want to do with your life.

    Start a family at 22 broke and often completely inexperienced in what life really has to offer?
    this post = teh win.

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    • #12
      Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

      Originally posted by Momo View Post
      Hi, I'm 22 years old and I'm an Armenian. At the university I met a girl (latina). We've been together for almost 3 years and she has met my brother. She is willing to learn our languages and raise our childeren in an Armenian way. I'm just not sure my family will except her. She is very kind ans respectful. What do you think of all this?
      What are your family going to do? Disown you! They will come around. However your mother won't like any women than you bring home to meet her. That much I can promise you.

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      • #13
        Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

        Originally posted by Sip View Post
        22 is the best age to REALLY start going to school. But if you are stopping education at 22, it is the best time to live on your own ... travel around .. see the world ... give yourself a chance to find out what you really want to do with your life.

        Start a family at 22 broke and often completely inexperienced in what life really has to offer?
        I agree, getting married and having kids young is a bad idea. He should wait at least another 5 years.

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        • #14
          Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

          Originally posted by Sip View Post
          22 is the best age to REALLY start going to school. But if you are stopping education at 22, it is the best time to live on your own ... travel around .. see the world ... give yourself a chance to find out what you really want to do with your life.

          Start a family at 22 broke and often completely inexperienced in what life really has to offer?
          Well ideally, at 22 you finish your studies and go on to a job. Of course the best time to marry and have family is once you finish your studies and have a stable job.
          Մեկ Ազգ, Մեկ Մշակույթ
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          "Western Assimilation is the greatest threat to the Armenian nation since the Armenian Genocide."

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          • #15
            Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

            Originally posted by Mos View Post
            Well ideally, at 22 you finish your studies and go on to a job. Of course the best time to marry and have family is once you finish your studies and have a stable job.
            Your not established in any kind of a career at 22 and you need a certain amount of experience of life to be a good father. Otherwise you will make to many mistakes. Only stupid people get married and have kids in there 20's.

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            • #16
              Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

              Originally posted by retro View Post
              Your not established in any kind of a career at 22 and you need a certain amount of experience of life to be a good father. Otherwise you will make to many mistakes. Only stupid people get married and have kids in there 20's.
              Well when you finish your studies, given you finished them well, chances are you will enter some sort of job. It's not stupid to get married and have family in your early 20s. Majority of Armenia does that actually. Marriages from an earlier age, are more stable, and they set you on the right path early on. Family is one of the most important things in this life.
              Մեկ Ազգ, Մեկ Մշակույթ
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              "Western Assimilation is the greatest threat to the Armenian nation since the Armenian Genocide."

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              • #17
                Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

                I think meeting the right person is more important then when you meet him/her.
                Hayastan or Bust.

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                • #18
                  Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

                  Originally posted by Haykakan View Post
                  I think meeting the right person is more important then when you meet him/her.
                  Well obviously, but dating a person for many many years until marriage (usually in West) is not good. Though reason they are able to do that, because they don't care about premarital sex and usually are not after having a large family or anything.
                  Մեկ Ազգ, Մեկ Մշակույթ
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                  "Western Assimilation is the greatest threat to the Armenian nation since the Armenian Genocide."

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                  • #19
                    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

                    Originally posted by Mos View Post
                    Well when you finish your studies, given you finished them well, chances are you will enter some sort of job. It's not stupid to get married and have family in your early 20s. Majority of Armenia does that actually. Marriages from an earlier age, are more stable, and they set you on the right path early on. Family is one of the most important things in this life.
                    22 year-old's who have kids are typically either subsidized by the state or a burden upon their families. It's better to wait until your in your late 20's or early 30's before you have children. As if you take young women out of the labor market. You only undermine your economy and the standard of living in Armenia isn't high as it is.

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                    • #20
                      Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

                      Originally posted by retro View Post
                      22 year-old's who have kids are typically either subsidized by the state or a burden upon their families. It's better to wait until your in your late 20's or early 30's before you have children. As if you take young women out of the labor market. You only undermine your economy and the standard of living in Armenia isn't high as it is.
                      Actually that is not true at all. Most (if not all) of my relatives, family, etc. married and started family at a young age. They were not in the condition you describe and actually became rather successful with great families.
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