Fidelity

[Anonymouse]

Basically are you more willing to give in to your animality, or are you willing to uphold your humanity?

[Hogg]

Sex is easily not worth ruining a relationship with someone you care about or...love *shudders at the thought*. It might seem like a good idea at the time when your blood's flowing towards the ground but once your babies have left the friendly confines of your sack, you'll most probably regret it.

[sSsflamesSs]

It's a given that most people are going to find infidelity unacceptable. It only comes down to who is going to end up holding on to his/her values, as Anon said.

As for me, I never compromise my values. Doing that would jeopardize my self-respect.

[xBaron Dants]

I am deeeefinitely not the mushy wushy type of person, and am not too sold on love either (please don't kill me), but anyone who cheats is just a weak person with no values whatsoever, and no feelings of respect, trust, honour, yevayln. And I hate the "I couldn't resist the temptation" bullxxxx either. It's as if it wasn't your fault. You're just a weak person who doesn't deserve to be with anyone.

That will be all,
thank you.

[PASAMONSTER]

I go by a strict code of Honor.

besides when you are in a relationship with someone, I don't know, you kind shouldn't feel obligated not to cheat, it should be a natural thing.

[violette829]

Hmm....I could have sworn this thread was made before by...hmmmm...i can't remember. Who was that wonderful girl who made that thread about INFIDELITY? Hmm..............




<!~HARDY HAR HAR!

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by violette829 Hmm....I could have sworn this thread was made before by...hmmmm...i can't remember. Who was that wonderful girl who made that thread about INFIDELITY? Hmm..............




<!~HARDY HAR HAR!

History repeats itself.

[SexyAries]

I guess your right mouse and you too baron, I am very selfish and very weak when it comes to relationships! I've always hating myself for cheating, so when I do cheat I then make that person hate me so I wont' feel so bad about it later. The only guy I have told I cheated on him was this recent guy I've been with and he forgave me, but it took a lot from me to get him back, but I did and I havn't cheated on him ever since but I want to, I want something new, different, better. Its just bad, Im a bad person, with a bad heart I can't believe myself! I started cheating on guys after my relationship with my ex that lasted about 2 years, he abused me mentally and physically and after him I hated relationships, I hated guys, I had a date for every day of the week. But thats no excuse and I know that, and its not like I can't not cheat, I can I am just so selfish I don't want to not cheat.

I've never told anyone this.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by SexyAries I guess your right mouse and you too baron, I am very selfish and very weak when it comes to relationships! I've always hating myself for cheating, so when I do cheat I then make that person hate me so I wont' feel so bad about it later. The only guy I have told I cheated on him was this recent guy I've been with and he forgave me, but it took a lot from me to get him back, but I did and I havn't cheated on him ever since but I want to, I want something new, different, better. Its just bad, Im a bad person, with a bad heart I can't believe myself! I started cheating on guys after my relationship with my ex that lasted about 2 years, he abused me mentally and physically and after him I hated relationships, I hated guys, I had a date for every day of the week. But thats no excuse and I know that, and its not like I can't not cheat, I can I am just so selfish I don't want to not cheat.

I've never told anyone this.

Well, look on the bright side, you're more experienced and you don't need any cheat notes for this type of cheating. It actually takes more skill.

But uhh, if I were you, I'd try to find someone who is understanding and you can perhaps talk to, say a friend or best friend, instead of a new date.

[chille]

Originally posted by SexyAries I guess your right mouse and you too baron, I am very selfish and very weak when it comes to relationships! I've always hating myself for cheating, so when I do cheat I then make that person hate me so I wont' feel so bad about it later. The only guy I have told I cheated on him was this recent guy I've been with and he forgave me, but it took a lot from me to get him back, but I did and I havn't cheated on him ever since but I want to, I want something new, different, better. Its just bad, Im a bad person, with a bad heart I can't believe myself! I started cheating on guys after my relationship with my ex that lasted about 2 years, he abused me mentally and physically and after him I hated relationships, I hated guys, I had a date for every day of the week. But thats no excuse and I know that, and its not like I can't not cheat, I can I am just so selfish I don't want to not cheat.

I've never told anyone this.

I am really sorry to hear that. I wish more people were honest about their problems as you are.