Feelings or Not

[surferarmo]

Re: Re: Re: Feelings or Not

Originally posted by loseyourname I like that attitude.

On one hand, it is exciting to get with a chick who is not in your heart. You just met her, she just met you, and the fact that you can win her trust, and she can win yours in one night is amazing.

With a woman you care about, passion is involved and is a main ingredient in making love. The act itself means more than having a good time, it is an act which is earned by love and dedication, and it purveys that you both have earned eachother.

Like I said before, both are chill.

However, which one you prefer, is up to you. Refer to Hoggs post above mine. It makes a lot of sense to me.

[Dan]

Hmm, Emil, at least you could've kept my initial reply to fstkhnan...

Well, anyway, seems like SELECTIVE censorship is becoming the norm here too. What, maybe we can talk about hetero sex? That way nothing would be censored, huh? W-H-A-T-E-V-E-R. People need to grow up.

I'm done with here for now.

[dstyle]

I think you should wait for someone you care about, but thats just me.

[fstkhnan]

Originally posted by dstyle I think you should wait for someone you care about, but thats just me.

ur one of the few guys I know who think that way....good thinkin!

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Emil Let's try this again.

Thank you, Emil.

[sleuth]

In my personal point of view sex without strong feelings is just an animal act,brutal and means nothing.Act of love has nothing to do with brutal sex...love is a dream ,beautiful dream big enough to hold both of them.they should explore the most closely guarded corners of theire hearts and souls before being intimate.Personally i have never experienced sex without love( i have been intimate only one person so far).But i think nowadays body drives ppl more than heart ,spirit or emotions.Even more i refuse any connection between sex and love...They both are different extrims..they just different..they have nothing common.And expression sex with love or sex without love is just wrong..sex is sex and love is love...i will never share my body with someone i don't know..or i feel nothing..

[fstkhnan]

Originally posted by sleuth In my personal point of view sex without strong feelings is just an animal act,brutal and means nothing.Act of love has nothing to do with brutal sex...love is a dream ,beautiful dream big enough to hold both of them.they should explore the most closely guarded corners of theire hearts and souls before being intimate.Personally i have never experienced sex without love( i have been intimate only one person so far).But i think nowadays body drives ppl more than heart ,spirit or emotions.Even more i refuse any connection between sex and love...They both are different extrims..they just different..they have nothing common.And expression sex with love or sex without love is just wrong..sex is sex and love is love...i will never share my body with someone i don't know..or i feel nothing..

thank you!