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    I recently has a little discussion with an ex-girlfriend of mine. She was bagging on me a bit because I haven't had a lover since her. I explained to her that it isn't worth it to me, for whatever reason, to have sex with a girl that I don't have strong feelings for. She said she was the exact opposite - she would rather that no feelings were involved, that the act be purely for physical pleasure and nothing more.

    What do my fellow forumers think? Is sex better with someone you love? Or is it better with someone you don't give a xxxx about, but who is wonderful in the hay? Which would you rather have? I'm guessing I'm in the minority here.

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    Re: Feelings or Not

    Originally posted by loseyourname I recently has a little discussion with an ex-girlfriend of mine. She was bagging on me a bit because I haven't had a lover since her. I explained to her that it isn't worth it to me, for whatever reason, to have sex with a girl that I don't have strong feelings for. She said she was the exact opposite - she would rather that no feelings were involved, that the act be purely for physical pleasure and nothing more.

    What do my fellow forumers think? Is sex better with someone you love? Or is it better with someone you don't give a xxxx about, but who is wonderful in the hay? Which would you rather have? I'm guessing I'm in the minority here.
    They are different experiences in different situations. Both are chill. They just feel different because different passions are involved. However, it is up to preference of the person which is determined by their experiences with sex and relationships.

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      Re: Feelings or Not

      Originally posted by loseyourname I recently has a little discussion with an ex-girlfriend of mine. She was bagging on me a bit because I haven't had a lover since her. I explained to her that it isn't worth it to me, for whatever reason, to have sex with a girl that I don't have strong feelings for. She said she was the exact opposite - she would rather that no feelings were involved, that the act be purely for physical pleasure and nothing more.

      What do my fellow forumers think? Is sex better with someone you love? Or is it better with someone you don't give a xxxx about, but who is wonderful in the hay? Which would you rather have? I'm guessing I'm in the minority here.
      Such a spiritual little boy lost who yurns for a spiritual moment of love and doesn't want to revel in just the mere physical pleasures, denies a soul. How ironic indeed.
      Achkerov kute.

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      • #4
        Ahhh men and sex...You should already know what all the guys are going to say. I mean, they'll take sex anytime...with or without feelings. In the case of women, I think I speak for the majority when I say that we need to have an emotional bond with a guy in order for sex to be more enoyable. It is a proven fact that men are more stimulated by "physical" rather than "mental" when it comes to sex and sexuality.

        This is probably the reason why a woman's name gets dragged through the mud when she has sex with men just for the pure enjoyment of sex. I don't agree completely with this, but that's how our society is. Men and women have different, if not opposite views on this subject.

        I personally will never sleep with a man unless I am completely in love with him and have an emotional attachment to him. I think you all know this, but I am a very open-minded person when it comes to my sexuality. I am not afraid to express it in any way...but, when it comes down to it, I would never just have sex with a guy I don't have strong feelings for. But, then the question remains...When are feelings strong enough and who determines the strength?

        I guess every person has their own answer to that question, thus making this topic a matter of choice and preference.

        Ew.

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          Re: Re: Feelings or Not

          Originally posted by Anonymouse Such a spiritual little boy lost who yurns for a spiritual moment of love and doesn't want to revel in just the mere physical pleasures, denies a soul. How ironic indeed.
          When have I ever denied the existence of a soul?

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            Re: Re: Feelings or Not

            Originally posted by surferarmo They are different experiences in different situations. Both are chill.
            I like that attitude.

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            • #7
              never experienced any, but I have to love the person or have really strong feelings for in order for me to have sex with him. So, that's why I totally believe in sex after marriage......

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              • #8
                Let's try this again.
                Last edited by Emil; 02-15-2004, 07:44 PM.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Emil Let's try this again.
                  that's really nice of u .... THANX!

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                  • #10
                    I'm sure it's better (never ravaged a random girl) but I wouldn't turn down ass just because it's a girl I don't care about.

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