Need advice

[TJ]

aight let me get this to you guys. i met this girl online like 3 months ago. shes from jersey. basically i saw some webcam pics of her. looked beautiful ! anyway weve been tryin to meet up for like 2 months now and it hasnt worked out. today she calls me and she asks me if i want to go to club deep in NYC on sunday night. I go sure np. im busy right now but ill call you later. i call her later she didnt pick up and I just finished a half hour AIM convo with her and some weird xxxx went down. its too bad i didnt copy the xxxxin thing but basically we were talking bout valentines day and i say iv been single almost 2 years she says try 16 and im like why your beautiful. you have trouble with guys? i tell her that she looked very attractive from what i remember of the pictures. after that shes askin if im sure ill go and i say yeah theres no problem when she says awesome and then shes like when you see me dont run away. and i was lke why the xxxx would i run away? she doesnt say anything so im like aright lets drop the subject. So then were talking about random xxxx and after a while she says she and her friends will be dressed like hoez and i shouldnt be afraid that theyll come up to me and ask me for money. and i sorta got relieved and said oh is that why you thought id be scared? and shes says no. and made some reference to her face. and i was like im confused as hell. cuz i had seen her on the pics and she looked xxxxin great. and she was like lets change the topic. and i said np. basically after that it was random xxxx. but what the xxxx do you think is going on? from reading this do you guys have any xxxxin ideas? should i show up at that club?

[surferarmo]

Re: need advice

Originally posted by TigranJamharian aight let me get this to you guys. i met this girl online like 3 months ago. shes from jersey. basically i saw some webcam pics of her. looked beautiful ! anyway weve been tryin to meet up for like 2 months now and it hasnt worked out. today she calls me and she asks me if i want to go to club deep in NYC on sunday night. I go sure np. im busy right now but ill call you later. i call her later she didnt pick up and I just finished a half hour AIM convo with her and some weird xxxx went down. its too bad i didnt copy the xxxxin thing but basically we were talking bout valentines day and i say iv been single almost 2 years she says try 16 and im like why your beautiful. you have trouble with guys? i tell her that she looked very attractive from what i remember of the pictures. after that shes askin if im sure ill go and i say yeah theres no problem when she says awesome and then shes like when you see me dont run away. and i was lke why the xxxx would i run away? she doesnt say anything so im like aright lets drop the subject. So then were talking about random xxxx and after a while she says she and her friends will be dressed like hoez and i shouldnt be afraid that theyll come up to me and ask me for money. and i sorta got relieved and said oh is that why you thought id be scared? and shes says no. and made some reference to her face. and i was like im confused as hell. cuz i had seen her on the pics and she looked xxxxin great. and she was like lets change the topic. and i said np. basically after that it was random xxxx. but what the xxxx do you think is going on? from reading this do you guys have any xxxxin ideas? should i show up at that club?

Yes. And then run away.

It sounds like she is a ho, and she will be working that night. She used the "We will be dressed like hoes" line to trick you. Hoes faces arent that great. That explains everything man. You have been talking to a hoe months!!! Does this make you a pimp or a client?

[violette829]

Tigran jan..You are so cute. Alrighty..this is what I think...


Are you ready? Well here are some possibilities of what might be happening here. She is definitely not a girl you can take home to mom and don't you ever think for a second that you can. The reason why she said "We will be dressed like hoes" is because she has some sort of weird problem with her face and she tries to dress provocatively to take away the attention from that. Webcams can NEVER be trusted and neither can online pictures!!! I think she has MANY self-esteem issues.

She might not even have anything wrong with her face, but I know that she is very worried about what you will think of her, because she probably doesn't think much of herself.

I think the only thing this girl will bring to your life is DRAMA and headache. If you have sex with her, I'm almost positive that she'll get pregnant just to keep you kinda drama. EW...You don't need that. You are a great guy...so don't even waste your time. If you want a decent girl...she will come to you when you least expect it. If you want to just go out and have wild animal sex, then go out with your friends, and meet a girl at the club. But, don't meet her on the net...it's scaryyyy! What if she's TOE-UP and you have to spend the rest of the night with her because she probably has feelings for you and I know you're such a great guy that you won't be able to tell her off and go home.

Alright enough babble....DON'T GOOOOOOOO!

[TJ]

Let me begin by saying thank you guys for taking the time to try and help out. but i guess i gave you a wrong impression of her. that comment about hoes was sort of in a joking way and she really does seem like a nice girl. i dont know. im just afraid she might be handicapped or have some physical disablity or something else. when she said dont run away when you see me it was like she was saying dont be so dissapointed in how i look or see something really abnormal

[violette829]

Well, I guess in that case...if you really like her, then you should go. Why a club? Why not have a moment alone to meet with her in a cafe or something? Clubs give off a bad vibe for the first "date".

[violette829]

If I was so concerned about something that serious, I would ask the person who I'm talking to. I mean, if it bothers you so bad, just ask the girl. I know it's going to be difficult...but just ask her like this..

"Hey sweetie, I was just wondering about something you said to me earlier concerning your looks. I'm not saying that they matter much to me because I like you as a person, but do you think I should be concerned about something? I mean, if there was something about me that you should know, I would tell you. It's only fair to let me know and let me make the decision for myself whether or not I will be disappointed or not."

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by violette829 If I was so concerned about something that serious, I would ask the person who I'm talking to. I mean, if it bothers you so bad, just ask the girl. I know it's going to be difficult...but just ask her like this..

"Hey sweetie, I was just wondering about something you said to me earlier concerning your looks. I'm not saying that they matter much to me because I like you as a person, but do you think I should be concerned about something? I mean, if there was something about me that you should know, I would tell you. It's only fair to let me know and let me make the decision for myself whether or not I will be disappointed or not."

Well said! Hey Tig, if you talk to her, say that. =)

[TJ]

"Hey sweetie, I was just wondering about something you said to me earlier concerning your looks. I'm not saying that they matter much to me because I like you as a person, but do you think I should be concerned about something? I mean, if there was something about me that you should know, I would tell you. It's only fair to let me know and let me make the decision for myself whether or not I will be disappointed or not."


very well said. thanks guys. lets see what happens.

well i was gonna meet her in the city before and just spend the day together but it didnt work out so then she heard about this presidents day thing so it was convenient.

[violette829]

Good Luck! I hope everything works out for the best!

[TJ]

Thanks violette jan