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  • #31
    There's no such thing as soul mates, or love at first sight. One needs to start of as friends before getting emotionally attached.

    I'm new here by the way

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    • #32
      Originally posted by OGBUGZY
      if there is, please god send it my way, i'm gettin old and i need my wife already.
      Some people find love later in life then others. You'll find the right person when you least expect it. Age is nothing but a number when it comes to love.
      You suppose??? Danny, Danny... Is that a way to welcome an old friend??

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      • #33
        if there is, please god send it my way, i'm gettin old and i need my wife already.
        lol... you're waiting for God to send you a wife? How does that work?

        Old friends don't delete friends off MSN lists, do they?

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        • #34
          Awww.Dan....>JANA~~

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          • #35
            Good one Nairi.....

            So, really...I think the only way a person would get "emotionally attached" to someone is if he/she has MAJOR SELF ESTEEM ISSUES! It all stems from that because if you don't have a strong sense of self...then you are bound to cling on any buttcrack that comes your way.


            Good Luck with the buttcracks Jenny jan!

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            • #36
              emotional attachment is believing that your happiness is based on things external! and according to buddha that's why one of the 4 noble truths is the state of human suffering....we suffer 'cause we're attached to family, friends, significant others, pets, places, things...etc.

              to be truely free of any kind of attachment and pain is to realize that everything is a transitory illusion and the only 'reality' or truth is within each one of us and that despite the fact that much of the universe is composed of dark matter, we all are beings of light

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              • #37
                I'm emotionally attached to chocolate.

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                • #38
                  I'm emotionally attached to everyone here. Especially we-know-who.

                  And to answer the initial question: it takes me exactly 2 minutes to be emotionally attached to someone.

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                  • #39
                    I'm emotionally attached to myself. Very badly so. I don't think I'll ever let go.

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                    • #40
                      Albeit the inextricable problems of being emotionally attached, I like the thoughts of caring for ppl, of being there for them. Last night, an older classmate of mine called me. A classmate that, during my 4 yrs in school, never approached me; a classmate that made fun of me when i first entered. Yes, she called me, she asked me to hang out together and I knew exactly why. It's bcoz her old so-called-friends don't give a crap about her anymore so who's left? nice girl jenny. Despite the bitter past, I was glad, I realized that somehow I had forgiven her for everything, the rage I felt towards all my frigid classmates have just...gone. Yes, I am nostalgic; yes I am emotionally attached to most ppl that have been a part of my past; no I don't expect anything in return. I hope I did give that Friend the comfort she was reaching out for.
                      "An angel runs
                      Thru the sudden light
                      Thru the room
                      A ghost preceeds us
                      A shadow follows us
                      And each time we stop
                      We fall"

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