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  • Being in love and cheating

    Is cheating ever an option if you really love your partner??

    I am interested to know if any of you have cheated on your partner despite being completely in love with them??

    If so, what were your motives? Was it purely sex? Did you feel emotionaly neglected in the relationship?

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    Re: Being in love and cheating

    Cheating is always "an option" but it is always, in my opinion, wrong. Honesty and sincerity are important. I can imagine myself loving someone so much that I would not think about anybody else. I can also imagine myself loving someone and wanting to sleep with someone else purely for the sex. However, if I love, I respect. And if I respect I do not cheat. I am big into keeping promises; if I am an item with someone, that is it.

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    • #3
      ^^^ What he said.


      I am seriously going to vote for that law that says if you cheat on your spouse you get jail time. I'll be first in line the day that comes to pass!

      How sad though, that so many people do this that it's come to the point where the only deterrent would be jail time or a fine. So sad that people don't have the respect enough for each other to refrain from following their sexual urges.
      The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald

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      • #4
        Two words Honesty and Honor.

        first of all when people cheat even if they arent in love, thats a disnonest act and it dishonors you first of all and then causes harm to the other person and dishonors you even further.

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        • #5
          Why do people cheat in the first place? If you lost interest in your partner then break up with him/her before you hurt them.
          I see...

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          • #6
            Originally posted by SagGal Why do people cheat in the first place? If you lost interest in your partner then break up with him/her before you hurt them.
            That's still hurting them.

            Hehe, either way, this is not a perfect world, pain and hurt are as necessary as love and happiness.
            Achkerov kute.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Anonymouse That's still hurting them.

              Hehe, either way, this is not a perfect world, pain and hurt are as necessary as love and happiness.
              That's still better than cheating on them and then them finding it out on their own. The deeper you get into the relationship the worse is the outcome if you don't see a future with that person.
              Oh well, like they say, "Love hurts."
              I see...

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              • #8
                Will you fall in love with me? I promise I will break up before I cheat.
                Achkerov kute.

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                • #9
                  Cheating is a crime..of the heart. I don't think it should be illegal, but I do not think that you should forgive someone who cheats on you..even the 1st time

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                  • #10
                    I say you should flash him every time you see him and send him naked photos so he can see what he's missing out on.

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