OK, I realise this is my second consecutive post in like an hour, but I'm curious about this, and wanted to ask, not sure if there has been a thread about this before.. anyway..
Hypothetical situation:
You meet person X on a forum, have discussions about a topic you're both interested in, and X PMs you and says a coupla things, and then asks if you have MSN. You say yes and give him your MSN address. So then X mssges you on MSN, and you talk and get to know each other better. You seem to be in love with him already without having seen him (the way he talks, etc. - and btw, I'm talking about talking with X for a week or so). And then X asks you if you wanna go out and see a movie together. You say yes. X sends you a pic of herself/himself, so that you know who you're talking to before you meet X. And well, it turns out that X's looks don't coincide with your imagined version. In other words, you are "disappointed."
What do you do? Do you go out with X anyway? Even if you know that you won't be "dating" X afterwards? Is it worse to give X hope, or is it worse to hurt X and say you're not interested after the pic was sent, despite the fact that you said you would've loved to go out with X before X sent the pic? If you say you don't wanna go out with X, does that mean you're a materialistic b*tch? Is it rude? And if you say yes, and want it to be a one-time thing and just be friends, how do you do that without hurting his feelings? What do you say?
And don't tell me looks aren't important. They are, to a certain extent. Quite important in my opinion. Unless you're having a one-night-stand thing. I mean, this could be a situation where you might end up spending the rest of your life with person X.
Hypothetical situation:
You meet person X on a forum, have discussions about a topic you're both interested in, and X PMs you and says a coupla things, and then asks if you have MSN. You say yes and give him your MSN address. So then X mssges you on MSN, and you talk and get to know each other better. You seem to be in love with him already without having seen him (the way he talks, etc. - and btw, I'm talking about talking with X for a week or so). And then X asks you if you wanna go out and see a movie together. You say yes. X sends you a pic of herself/himself, so that you know who you're talking to before you meet X. And well, it turns out that X's looks don't coincide with your imagined version. In other words, you are "disappointed."
What do you do? Do you go out with X anyway? Even if you know that you won't be "dating" X afterwards? Is it worse to give X hope, or is it worse to hurt X and say you're not interested after the pic was sent, despite the fact that you said you would've loved to go out with X before X sent the pic? If you say you don't wanna go out with X, does that mean you're a materialistic b*tch? Is it rude? And if you say yes, and want it to be a one-time thing and just be friends, how do you do that without hurting his feelings? What do you say?
And don't tell me looks aren't important. They are, to a certain extent. Quite important in my opinion. Unless you're having a one-night-stand thing. I mean, this could be a situation where you might end up spending the rest of your life with person X.
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