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  • #21
    I can't believe you guys are badmouthing this guys. I think what DaNcErGurL meant was that her best friend's boyfriend likes her, as in just a friend, but loves her best friend.
    DaNcErGurL you already heard this and you think the same way, so this is not going to be a surprise to you, but sweetie you have to get over him. It will be hard. You can try getting over him by not being around him for a really long time. Let's say about a month and then you say if you still have a crush on him. I don't know where I heard this but to make sure of your feelings for someone you have to stay away from them for a long time. If afer a long period of time you still want to be with that person, then you really do have a huge crush on him or maybe even love him. I know this may not make sense, but believe it's true. Just don't be around him for a long time and your crush will fade away.
    Dating your best friend's boyfriend or ex boyfriend is definitely wrong. However, if they break up and he asks you out, you can't agree to date him unless your best friend approves of it. She might be OK with it because their breakup might be something like, they just want to be friends. This is IF they break up.
    Also remember that time heals...........time heals. Hope everything works out fine.
    I see...

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    • #22
      Uh Sag Gal.....the guy's a loser. PERIOD! <!~exclamation mark...<!~yes PERIODS~<!~Swiggle.<!~Finally PERIOD...

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      • #23
        you are the first person to make total and absolute sense...i am going to not talk to him and not even like or think about him...i wanna see if it will work...but today all i did was think about him....and i wrote a poem...

        it is about life in general...

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        • #24
          Started off strong..but I lost ya at the end honey...CMON NOW!

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          • #25
            you are the first person to make total and absolute sense...
            Where did I not make sense??!?! I said the same thing about "liking" vs. "loving."

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            • #26
              Just forget about him. Period. No poems, no such thing. Those are the romantic stereotypes that will drag you away.

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              • #27
                Poems are meant for those who cannot express their emotions in a normal conversation. You can..All ya gotta do is say "F*CK OFF BUCKO"

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                • #28
                  This is my poem...1 hour in work..

                  {Lost...}

                  I am lost...
                  I can not be found.
                  Where am I?
                  In the sky, in the water, or in the ground?
                  Why can't I feel anything?
                  I am here...
                  On earth, am I on Mars?
                  Can someone help me...
                  I am lost.

                  I can't see myself.
                  I look in the mirror...
                  But I don't see anything!
                  Am i nothing?
                  Do i not exist?
                  Can someone help me...
                  I am lost.

                  No on can see or feel me.
                  I say "Hi!" to him...
                  But he doesn't respond.
                  I am here, why don't you see me?
                  I am looking at you...
                  imagining that I am caressing you.
                  Are you there?
                  I can't see you there...
                  Where are you?
                  I need some help...
                  I think i am lost!

                  I can't see you.
                  Can you see me?
                  Oh, there you are!
                  Why are you running away?
                  Come back to me!
                  I love you...
                  Please come back!
                  I can feel pain,
                  Pain all over me!
                  Is there someone out there,
                  to help me?
                  I know I am lost.

                  Why is everything falling apart?
                  Where are you?
                  Where am I?
                  I ned you, to take my pain away!
                  Can't you help me?
                  I know you are there...
                  just don't leave me all alone!
                  I feel cold...
                  Please come back to me!
                  I am not lost anymore!

                  Where is everyone?
                  Please, help me!
                  I am in the middle of nowhere!
                  I am here, but where am I...
                  I need you...
                  I can't breathe...
                  Please come back to me!
                  Hold me tight and never let go!
                  Lost, what does that word mean?

                  Tell me, why am I lost...
                  do I deserve this?
                  Well...no, I don't!
                  But life...does to all of us!
                  I need someone!
                  Open your arms to me!
                  Heaven or hell...take me in!
                  No one can be found!

                  Show me where to go...
                  Let me see the light or
                  Let me see the darkness!
                  Just let me see something,
                  To know that I am alive!

                  Don't look down, there is no hell.
                  Don't look up, there is no heaven.
                  Heaven and hell don't exist.
                  It is what you do...
                  that determines where you will be!

                  So...
                  Where am I?
                  Where are you?
                  WE ARE...
                  LOST!!!

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                  • #29
                    Uh Sag Gal.....the guy's a loser.
                    I think instead of badmouthing him, you guys could have told the girl what to do. Saying he's a jerk and for her to just get over him does not help. She needed doable advice.
                    Originally posted by DaNcErGurL
                    you are the first person to make total and absolute sense...i am going to not talk to him and not even like or think about him...i wanna see if it will work...but today all i did was think about him....and i wrote a poem...

                    it is about life in general...
                    I'd suggest you keep that poem and after a long time that you haven't seen him, read that poem and see if you still have feelings for him. If you do a little bit, stay away from a little bit more. Maybe that poem will tell you when you're finally over him. I'm pretty sure your crush will fade away because time heals.......time heals. Now, during that time, if I were you, I'd check out other guys. Get my drift?
                    Happy to help DaNcErGurL.
                    I see...

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                    • #30
                      I am lost...but thanks to someone (wink wink...lol) i have found myself...

                      I am with everyone else...still lost!

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