Y did it happen to me?

[sleuth]

he loves her and that is a fact...and i have tried to get over him...but it's xxxxing hard to get over a guy you like that much...i don't know...i am so xxxxing lost

1)get rid of your freakin ego (it's not you it's your ego...it hurts)

2)never kick drama for nothing

just be cool ok?

[Crimson Glow]

You know, that poem looks to me like some stolen Linkin Park lyrics.....

I KEED, I KEED!

Anyways, where to start, let's see (uh oh, I feel another one coming on....)[rant]

1.) Anyone under 20 that thinks they're in love cracks me up. You have no idea who you are, and what you want out of life. It's called being lost in life in general, not just in love. A "significant other" comforts you from the volnurability of that truth. In fact, scratch that under 20 comment. That's true for most people until their last day on Earth. I can honestly say any couple I've personally come across (and I mean ANY), married, dating, or otherwise, who say they're "in love" is a liar. A couple things in common + the need to not feel lonely/love someone does not constitute love, yet this is the basis for almost every relationship out there right now. Like Foamy says, "get over the boyfriend, get over the girlfriend, or what ever it is you're yearning for, and LIVE - FUKING - LIFE!"

2.) I never agreed with the "can't date your best friends ex" theory. WHY? So things didn't work out between them. If this person turns out to be perfect for you, you have to pass it up because it didnt work out between her/him and your best friend??? Does that make any kind of sense? If they're broken up, the ex is fair game, end of story. I don't see why a best friend would have a problem with this if they're truly through. I'd be like "ummm, the skanky bytch is all yours. Go for it"!

But in either case, I think people need to get over the "feeling lonely without a b/f - g/f" factor. Most people today only have one so that they can say they have one if the topic comes up. They feel inadequate if they have to say "no....I....don't have one right now...". Damn, people. Find a hobby or something! It blows my mind that things like this are most people's biggest concern. Get over it already!

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