An Outcry

[SagGal]

Why forgive if the problem remains or gets worse? By the way, how did that email go?

[Jenny]

The e-mail? It made things worst....he got mad. Anyway my problem is getting too emotionally attached real quick. I should just let it go. I do forgive him though, coz I know he never meant to hurt me. He is a good person and I didn't expect him to go that far, maybe that's what pissed me off, I guess I just forgot that I can't judge a person without being in his shoes.

[Anonymouse]

I believe that's been dubbed as the Wise factor. No wonder they got along.

I coulda told you that since this Jenny fellow first spawned.

[Jenny]

No u couldn't, not without contacting wise.

[Jenny]

We should be careful and discriminating in all the advice we give. We should be especially careful in giving advice that we would not think of following ourselves. Most of all, we ought to avoid giving counsel which we don't follow when it damages those who take us at our word.

[ckBejug]

Ok, I figured it out!!! Life is like a rollercoaster. We are thrust on the tracks, the ticket bought, seat bars secured in place, no choice in the matter, the second we are born. We could cry and whimper the whole way or learn to embrace the fear and uncertainty.

Example- (Listen up Jenny dear, and don't think I say this without doing it myself... I gave this advice to myself first before imparting it to you here...) You could miserably obsess about the love-of-your-life-@$$hole-on-again-off-again-boyfriend or break the cycle and leave yourself open for some real happiness. The circumstances don’t change, only your outlook. Ok, and having an awesome new guy helps a lot too.