Ode to the Nice Guys

[anileve]

What happened? Most girls turned into being so xxxxty they should be considered xxxxxs.

I have to agree with Violette. Whatever do those "x"'s stand for? If they are what Violette mentioned, you have stated a very ignorant opinion. I hope you think twice about the validity of your question. As Violette said, if anything it's men who have invented the word "5lut", because they knew the real meaning behind it.

5lut --- a woman practicing the same sexual promiscuity as men, against the male/social acceptance.

[anileve]

Someone already pointed out that no one truly wants to be considered an a-hole or a jerk. And women don't necessarily want a jerk, they just have that maternal need to nurture and improve a man. Men often have that paternal syndrome as well, desiring to capture a troubled girl they can protect and mold into a better person. It's the challenge we seek. Being nice and being boring or annoying are too different things. I hate a-holes, they are too much work and the flame dies out after you tame them and realize there is nothing else substantial behind their badness.

There are plenty of man who are self confident, secure and have an ounce of dignity. Those are usually the most marketable partners.

[hyebruin]

I'm satisfied with one woman at a time, but I think bruin might referring to guys that only have one partner their entire life. That seems a little far-fetched, but I'm sure it can happen on pure dumb luck.

why is that so far fetched? people are getting married later on these days, so let's just say a guy anywhere from late 20's to 30's or even 40's finds his match, a really compatible girl...and decides to be with her for the rest of his life, considering that he has dated girls before this is NOT exactly what i would call 'torture'

[leo007]

First of all, the X's in those words prevents me from seeing the true meaning of your post, but I do have a clue as to what you're talking about. Girls aren't SL*TS now, they are merely expressing themselves more, perhaps dressing in a more provacotive way, but men have been wh0re-ing it for CENTURIES!!!!! No one ever said anything about them!!!! MEN ARE ALL JERKS NOW! FACE IT...just ADMIT IT...it's not the girls' fault....The fact of the matter is, you guys aren't commiting because it's easier to find a girl who doesn't want a serious commitment. We are free now...don't you understand? Why not enjoy the knowledge and intelligence of a girl and use it to benefit you, instead of being so intimidated?

Your right about the guys, some have really xxxxed up and haven't shown the proper respect for women. Equal rights and all that was great for women, but some took it the wrong way and just went from a lady-like status to total wh0ore status. Honestly, you can't be serious by saying all men are jerks. Seriously, grow up. You can't just go around blaming the reason some girls/women are xxxxs all on men. Let women be "free" as you say, I have no problem with that, but then some women feel like they have something to prove and try too hard to show they're "free". If your "free", that's fine. Just don't go overboard by trying to hard to be an attention wh0re (some women).

I do enjoy the knowledge and intelligence of a girl. Never said I didn't. Don't assume it intimidates me because it doesn't. I think a girl who doesn't have to act like a s l u t to get guys to like her is the real indepedent one and will command more respect from both guys and girls. I don't really have a problem w/ s l u t s, it's just that I don't have any respect for them. In short, being "free" doesn't = acting s l u t y, or at least it shouldn't be.

[loseyourname]

why is that so far fetched? people are getting married later on these days, so let's just say a guy anywhere from late 20's to 30's or even 40's finds his match, a really compatible girl...and decides to be with her for the rest of his life, considering that he has dated girls before this is NOT exactly what i would call 'torture'

In order for this to be his only partner, he would have had to remain a virgin into his 30's or even his 40's. That's far fetched.

[hyebruin]

In order for this to be his only partner, he would have had to remain a virgin into his 30's or even his 40's. That's far fetched.

i never said he'd have to be a virgin ...it's extremely unrealistic to expect that these days especially from men, and besides an experienced man is preferred to a novice as a matter of fact that would be a bit scary if he was a virgin!!! that's why mormons get married at 20 or by 25 the latest... i don't even know if they kiss before marriage but that's for another thread

[loseyourname]

I think I made it pretty clear that that's what I thought you were saying, and that that is what I thought was unrealistic.

[Tres Bien]

Your right about the guys, some have really xxxxed up and haven't shown the proper respect for women. Equal rights and all that was great for women, but some took it the wrong way and just went from a lady-like status to total wh0ore status. Honestly, you can't be serious by saying all men are jerks. Seriously, grow up. You can't just go around blaming the reason some girls/women are xxxxs all on men. Let women be "free" as you say, I have no problem with that, but then some women feel like they have something to prove and try too hard to show they're "free". If your "free", that's fine. Just don't go overboard by trying to hard to be an attention wh0re (some women).

I do enjoy the knowledge and intelligence of a girl. Never said I didn't. Don't assume it intimidates me because it doesn't. I think a girl who doesn't have to act like a s l u t to get guys to like her is the real indepedent one and will command more respect from both guys and girls. I don't really have a problem w/ s l u t s, it's just that I don't have any respect for them. In short, being "free" doesn't = acting s l u t y, or at least it shouldn't be.

how does one act like a xxxx??if a guy sleeps around he is not a "xxxx" because its accepted for a guy to sleep around but if a girl chooses have this life-style, she is called a xxxx? Che, che.

There is a on-going sexism in our sociaties. I have seen it change almost drastically in my country...as i had been away in Armenia for a while. When I was back in my country. I was chocked to see so clearly the changes, how the men had started to behave like pigs ...and the girls as well...thinking that life only is about getting as much "attention" from boys as possible...so on...

In my opinion, guys or girls can be equally sl u t t y! ?

There is an increasing amont of violence, and sexist attitude everywhere! On television they often have reality shows where they sit and talk about the most un-intresting subjets , and 99 % of our programs are useless american comedy shows, (where they often joke about sex(?). )

Im getting the hell out of here as soon as i can...

[sSsflamesSs]

how does one act like a xxxx??if a guy sleeps around he is not a "xxxx" because its accepted for a guy to sleep around but if a girl chooses have this life-style, she is called a xxxx? Che, che.

There is a on-going sexism in our sociaties. I have seen it change almost drastically in my country...as i had been away in Armenia for a while. When I was back in my country. I was chocked to see so clearly the changes, how the men had started to behave- like pigs ...and the girls as well...thinking that life only is about getting as much "attention" from boys as possible...so on...

In my opinion, guys or girls can be equally sl u t t y! ?

There is an increasing amont of violence, and sexist attitude everywhere! On television they often have reality shows where they sit and talk about the most un-intresting subjets , and 99 % of our programs are useless american comedy shows, (where they often joke about sex(?). )

Im getting the hell out of here as soon as i can...

Exactly. We've had this discussion in the past. Guys these days are just as much of s1uts as these girls that they refer to.

[Tres Bien]

I forgot to mention that mostly I belive that the sexism is mainly directed towards women.