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  • #21
    Originally posted by hyebruin
    this coming from a guy who supports polygamy?? you change colors as fast as a multifaceted prism did you not say in a previous thread "all relationships need not be monogamous?" or somthing similar?
    Yes. But there is a big difference between polygamy and cheating. I don't see how you make the jump from one to the other. I have NEVER supported deceit.

    If failing to grasp that point gives you another opportunity to insult me, feel free.
    Last edited by Sip; 07-23-2004, 05:29 PM.
    this post = teh win.

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    • #22
      Originally posted by Seapahn
      Yes. But there is a big difference between polygamy and cheating. I don't see how you make the jump from one to the other. I have NEVER supported deceit.

      If failing to grasp that point gives you another opportunity to insult me, feel free.
      why you think it's an insult? it's simply an observation, you DID say it, now now, don't deny

      actually polygamy and cheating are different branches of the same evil...with cheating carrying the deceit component

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      • #23
        Originally posted by HyeJinx1984
        Yes, Armenian men are allowed to cheat on their wives, it's a known fact. The same person should have told you we beat our wives and daughter daily also
        You were on a roll there with accuracy....then it kinda' fell off. Don't know why any Armenian would deny how readily accepted cheating is in our culture. And by accepted, I mean the wife won't divorce, even if she knows he's doing it. They may fight, bicker, and b*tch about it, but they refuse to end the relationship for one ridiculous reason or another. And the son wouldn't be encouraged to join in on the beatings because he'd be too busy getting his ass kicked himself. Hell, even my mom said that's just the way it is. Armenian men are allowed to treat their wives like dirt and beat their kids' brains in, and you keep the family together no matter what. Now some that have been in America a while may have discovered some new found "women's rights", but not enough of them seem to have the guts to say they won't tolerate disrespect. Of course, that's hard to do with those manly men who like to prove how big their balls are by knocking out woman's teeth.

        Several years ago, I ran into a guy on the basketball court who was half Armenian (dad's side), half French (mom's side). The dad used to hit the mom, and took off because he "owed a lot of money to some men". They never saw him again after that. But his mom was so paranoid about Armenians, that when he told her about me, she demanded to meet me before he was allowed to hang out with me. So she had me over for dinner. I could see she had already made up her mind to hate me before I even spoke, but gosh darn it, I'm just too damn adorable and charming, and by the end of dinner, she had warmed up to me. Yeah....so.....then they moved to another state and stuff a few months later (they had only moved here temporarily).

        Moral of the story: Armenian men have a bad rap when it comes to quick trigger tempers, and finding piss poor ways for releasing that temper. And I unfortunately have heard and experienced too many such incidences to disprove the validity of this preception.

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        • #24
          Originally posted by hyebruin
          why you think it's an insult? it's simply an observation, you DID say it, now now, don't deny actually polygamy and cheating are different branches of the same evil...with cheating carrying the deceit component
          I did say it. But I have never changed my colors as you aledge, let alone "as fast as a a multifaceted prism". The difference is, I don't consider what and how in many ways adults choose to live their lives and discussing it openly with each other as "evil", the way some of the "God Loving" conservatives choose to label, put down, and denounce.

          This is not to say I myself would ever participate in polygamous relationships ... but I don't particularly have a problem with those that choose to do so (whatever sex they may be).

          Once again, the topic here is "cheating" on a significant other, which implies deceit, lying, and dishonesty.
          this post = teh win.

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          • #25
            Originally posted by Crimson Glow
            You were on a roll there with accuracy....then it kinda' fell off. Don't know why any Armenian would deny how readily accepted cheating is in our culture. And by accepted, I mean the wife won't divorce, even if she knows he's doing it. They may fight, bicker, and b*tch about it, but they refuse to end the relationship for one ridiculous reason or another. And the son wouldn't be encouraged to join in on the beatings because he'd be too busy getting his ass kicked himself. Hell, even my mom said that's just the way it is. Armenian men are allowed to treat their wives like dirt and beat their kids' brains in, and you keep the family together no matter what. Now some that have been in America a while may have discovered some new found "women's rights", but not enough of them seem to have the guts to say they won't tolerate disrespect. Of course, that's hard to do with those manly men who like to prove how big their balls are by knocking out woman's teeth.

            Several years ago, I ran into a guy on the basketball court who was half Armenian (dad's side), half French (mom's side). The dad used to hit the mom, and took off because he "owed a lot of money to some men". They never saw him again after that. But his mom was so paranoid about Armenians, that when he told her about me, she demanded to meet me before he was allowed to hang out with me. So she had me over for dinner. I could see she had already made up her mind to hate me before I even spoke, but gosh darn it, I'm just too damn adorable and charming, and by the end of dinner, she had warmed up to me. Yeah....so.....then they moved to another state and stuff a few months later (they had only moved here temporarily).

            Moral of the story: Armenian men have a bad rap when it comes to quick trigger tempers, and finding piss poor ways for releasing that temper. And I unfortunately have heard and experienced too many such incidences to disprove the validity of this preception.
            Damnit.. I said I wouldn't get involved. And I'm not... but this is very very upsetting!!!!
            "All I know is I'm not a Marxist." -Karl Marx

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            • #26
              Originally posted by Mags
              I know about 10 guys off the top of my head that have either cheated, are cheating or would cheat given the chance, on their wifes or g/f's...this is nothing new in the armenian community...we're just more open about it now...which is a catch 22 in a sense...because no matter what, guys will ALWAYS deny they cheated and yet, they tell their friends, co-workers or anyone else willing to listen who they banged the night before...*shakes head* and then people wonder why armenian women turn to different races...prime example right here. I'm not saying all armenian guys are cheaters...but you'll find the majority to be so....
              I dont think you can say this with so much certainty... you cant use the ten people off the top of your head to generalize for 2 million... ... it is becoming more widespread though.. that i must admit.. but.. again. it is a very case to case issue.. we cant count this type of thing and generalize..
              How do you hurt a masochist?
              -By leaving him alone.Forever.

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              • #27
                Originally posted by Crimson Glow
                You were on a roll there with accuracy....then it kinda' fell off. Don't know why any Armenian would deny how readily accepted cheating is in our culture. And by accepted, I mean the wife won't divorce, even if she knows he's doing it...
                You are simply unreal. You impress me more and more with each post.

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                • #28
                  Originally posted by sad_eyes
                  It has been introuduced to my knowledge that armenian men cheat regularly on their wives and girlfriends. It has been brought to my attention that it is conciderd normal in your country to do so. Is this correct? I just cannot bring myself to accpet that. I persoanlly have seen many doing so and have been in a relationship that I ended as soon as I found out he was married.
                  It has been introuduced to my knowledge that your petty attempts and riling up tensions are as futile as the rest of your existence. "Your" country? Excuse me but we reside all over the world now, and yes Armenia is the motherland. What you are accusing of Armenian men can be said a lot about Mexicans middle easterners and Europeans in general. Again I ask, what is your purpose in saying that?

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                  • #29
                    Well we can argue the same for Armenian women too how they cannot keep their legs closed to every tanned piece of skin that walks by, thinking they will "modernize" by doing that here. We can say the same for these Anglos who still as of today incest. See, there is no point of generalizing any ethnicity with or about that. You just come across really ignorant.

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                    • #30
                      Originally posted by HyeJinx1984
                      Damnit.. I said I wouldn't get involved. And I'm not... but this is very very upsetting!!!!
                      Weep not. He is having chemical flashbacks again of his own world.

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