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I have a question, and if I may ask so, I would ask you to concider your heart, mind and anything to do with traditions if possible. Just be honest. My friend is having a problem with this and I dont know what to say to her, I just need some opinions...thank you so much.
Now, say a girl meets a guy. She thinks he is a good guy and decideds to go to his apartment when he requested a visit of her. There he feeds her alchohol (even though she doesnt drink and if she says no he continues to offer her it anyway) so she drinks it and becomes insanely drunk to the point she doesnt remember almost everything. There he takes her to bed and she loses her virginity. He uses the excuse that he did nothing wrong because she didnt say no, she uses the excuse that he did wrong because she feels he took advantage of her because she was extreamly drunk and could not even remember the sex. Who is right? Anyway, she continues to see him only because she knows later that she lost her viriginity to him and she felt that it was the right thing to do, to remain with him. Later on in their relationship she finds out he is married and leaves him. A few months later her friend says he knows one guy who wants to be with her. He says he is a good guy, someone you can trust and mutually love. She decideds to meet and be with him. Now these two share an incredable bond. They were best friends and both in love. She has sex with him as well. Later on in the relationship he begins to beat her, and treats her badly. She cheats on him 2 times with her first boyfriend because she was drawn to him by him telling her that he loves her he misses her. She tells her current boyfriend what she did and he leaves her. However, they end up back together and his violence only continues. The girl wants to leave him, but felt like she couldnt. She no longer loved him, and did not want to see him anymore. She didnt know what to do. Then one day she meets another guy. Who opens up her eyes about life. For the first time in a long time she was happy, she actually laughed. He made her feel so free. He gave her what she never expected to find again, ---a life. So she decideds to tell her boyfriend that she met someone and she is leaving him. He didnt take it to well, he gets mad and tells lies to his friends about her. He ruins both her and her new boyfriend. She is now known as a xxxxx in everyone of her ex boyfriends eyes, but she feels she didnt do anything wrong and if she did do something wrong, she should not be concidered a xxxxx. Her and this guy are still together. They love each other very much but because the hatred that exists amongst her ex's friends towards her and her new boyfriend they have to somewhat hide their relationship. They want to be together but they dont know what to do. The girl has now changed her ways and is completely different. She feels so horrible about the things she has done in her past and she doesnt know what to do.
She wants them to see her for who she is now and not in the past. What should she do?
Now, say a girl meets a guy. She thinks he is a good guy and decideds to go to his apartment when he requested a visit of her. There he feeds her alchohol (even though she doesnt drink and if she says no he continues to offer her it anyway) so she drinks it and becomes insanely drunk to the point she doesnt remember almost everything. There he takes her to bed and she loses her virginity. He uses the excuse that he did nothing wrong because she didnt say no, she uses the excuse that he did wrong because she feels he took advantage of her because she was extreamly drunk and could not even remember the sex. Who is right? Anyway, she continues to see him only because she knows later that she lost her viriginity to him and she felt that it was the right thing to do, to remain with him. Later on in their relationship she finds out he is married and leaves him. A few months later her friend says he knows one guy who wants to be with her. He says he is a good guy, someone you can trust and mutually love. She decideds to meet and be with him. Now these two share an incredable bond. They were best friends and both in love. She has sex with him as well. Later on in the relationship he begins to beat her, and treats her badly. She cheats on him 2 times with her first boyfriend because she was drawn to him by him telling her that he loves her he misses her. She tells her current boyfriend what she did and he leaves her. However, they end up back together and his violence only continues. The girl wants to leave him, but felt like she couldnt. She no longer loved him, and did not want to see him anymore. She didnt know what to do. Then one day she meets another guy. Who opens up her eyes about life. For the first time in a long time she was happy, she actually laughed. He made her feel so free. He gave her what she never expected to find again, ---a life. So she decideds to tell her boyfriend that she met someone and she is leaving him. He didnt take it to well, he gets mad and tells lies to his friends about her. He ruins both her and her new boyfriend. She is now known as a xxxxx in everyone of her ex boyfriends eyes, but she feels she didnt do anything wrong and if she did do something wrong, she should not be concidered a xxxxx. Her and this guy are still together. They love each other very much but because the hatred that exists amongst her ex's friends towards her and her new boyfriend they have to somewhat hide their relationship. They want to be together but they dont know what to do. The girl has now changed her ways and is completely different. She feels so horrible about the things she has done in her past and she doesnt know what to do.
She wants them to see her for who she is now and not in the past. What should she do?
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