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  • #1

    Crossing the boundaries

    What do you consider to be the limit for what your girl/boyfriend can ask you to do to please them? Where does it start to get rude, unfair, and unthinking? My boyfriend said I should take pole dancing lessons. And a previous bf asked me to give him a strip tease on the spot. Maybe I'm just shy, but it was pretty insensitive and unfair esp since men do nothing of the sort to make themselves as vulnerable as women are asked to act.
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  • #2
    Originally posted by TheSwineherd
    What do you consider to be the limit for what your girl/boyfriend can ask you to do to please them? Where does it start to get rude, unfair, and unthinking? My boyfriend said I should take pole dancing lessons. And a previous bf asked me to give him a strip tease on the spot. Maybe I'm just shy, but it was pretty insensitive and unfair esp since men do nothing of the sort to make themselves as vulnerable as women are asked to act.

    ahahahhaaa

    Your boyfriend needs help. Pole dancing lessons?...

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    To answer your question, it should be evident that it "gets rude, unfair, and unthinking" When it crosses your mind that what he's asking you to do may be rude, unfair, and unthinking.

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    • #3
      I say anything between the two of you in the context of the bedroom, and of course assuming it's by consent of both of you, is absolutely alright, nothing should be taboo between two people who love each other. HOWEVER, I think when it requires you to do out of bedroom 'practice', such as pole dancing lessons, it goes a bit far. Besides, what the hell are you going to do with that knowledge? Is there a pole in his bedroom? if so, I don't think you're his only girlfriend...
      "All I know is I'm not a Marxist." -Karl Marx

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      • #4
        Originally posted by TheSwineherd
        What do you consider to be the limit for what your girl/boyfriend can ask you to do to please them? Where does it start to get rude, unfair, and unthinking? My boyfriend said I should take pole dancing lessons. And a previous bf asked me to give him a strip tease on the spot. Maybe I'm just shy, but it was pretty insensitive and unfair esp since men do nothing of the sort to make themselves as vulnerable as women are asked to act.
        Pole dancing.... grrrrr

        JK.

        Yea... that isn't cool and as Hyejinx said above anything in the bedroom is alright as long as you both agree to it. Anything outside isn't cool.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by HyeJinx1984
          .... Besides, what the hell are you going to do with that knowledge? Is there a pole in his bedroom? if so, I don't think you're his only girlfriend...
          that is soooo freakin funny AND true!!! some guys and their fetishes! why cant' he be normal and worship feet or a$$??geezzzz

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          • #6
            I agree with everyone else. Poll dancing haha.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by HyeJinx1984
              Besides, what the hell are you going to do with that knowledge? Is there a pole in his bedroom?
              Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee had a pole in their bedroom. Of course, their a set of sick, twisted f*cks (no pun intended).

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              • #8
                Well.. I would say get away from thos kinds of guys.. what is his problem>?

                And pretty much everyone above i agree with. But seriously, why do you stay with guys like that who need more than your love... plus.. at this stage, i dont think most of those types of guys are in it for love.. aehh.. wahtever.
                How do you hurt a masochist?
                -By leaving him alone.Forever.

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                • #9
                  Politely decline and move on. Big f*cking deal.

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                  • #10
                    You know, my wife better be into everything because there is no better place to openly experiment with sex than with the one you love, because if she don't, then lots of bad things happen, like, like, mastirbation.
                    Achkerov kute.

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