Who the hell understands women?

[garegin]

White people *shakes head*

im not white

[HyeJinx1984]

That's my all purpose "I'm fed up with society" mantra.. just look down, shame my head and grumble "white people"

By the way, you're lucky Ivy Lipstick doesn't come here anymore, she'd be on your ass for hours for that comment.

[garegin]

your thoughts are too libidinous for me.

[HyeJinx1984]

Mmm.. *flicks tongue*

[angelik22]

o haha how could i forget to mention gevo and stud- yea the three muskateers- that understand women lol- anywhoo this threads going way off- i guess weve got it all figred out eh?

[thedebutante]

o haha how could i forget to mention gevo and stud- yea the three muskateers- that understand women lol- anywhoo this threads going way off- i guess weve got it all figred out eh?

Wait a minute. Do you guys really think that Mousey doesn't understand women? Hahahaha

[Anonymouse]

Indeed the debutante. I like to think I understand women. I gather jinx understands women the least, based on his sheer behavior and confusion exuded by his posts. Not that it is anything bad, as obviously I expressed confusion in this above thread made in March 2003. But I will state that there is a general pattern I have noticed in my putrid existence and dealings with females. And the reason I am stating this is for record purposes so as to finally bring this thread to culmination, since I started it and to show that I did indeed learn a thing or two.

Look at dating, which is a loaded thing. Everyone is into this shyt and most guys think that this is the avenue to figure out chicks, by spending endless money and time taking them out. The word "dating" is simply a word that is understood to be "romantic interactions with women". But if you want to strip it down to mere romantic interactions, that doesn't mean you need to be "dating" in order to do it. After all, any couple that has been together for a significant period, look at their behavior. They stay home most of the time, and watch movies from Blockbuster, or do other shyt like they did before they met. This whole "OMG LETS GO OUT TO DINNER" ritual is really stupid.

When you know how to trigger attraction in a woman, all the "normal" rules go away. If a woman feels that powerful emotional attraction for you, then she'll do anything with you just to be in your presence and have your attention. After you got that down, all you say is "come over here". No dates required nor any time thinking of "where to go out to". Now, if you buy her dinner 10 times, call her 10 times a day, and chase her around, then it will be expected that you continue this pattern and provide for her. Then you can be 80% sure she is running back to her ex who is a "jerk" in her words and getting bored of you. Moderation. I've learned that attraction doesn't have a timeline. It happens very quickly, when you least expect it, and if you know how to trigger it and you don't need a lot of "date ideas" once you do. After all that, women don't care what you do together, as long as she's with you. Well, at least that's my two cents.

[gevo]

Indeed the debutante. I like to think I understand women. I gather jinx understands women the least, based on his sheer behavior and confusion exuded by his posts. Not that it is anything bad, as obviously I expressed confusion in this above thread made in March 2003. But I will state that there is a general pattern I have noticed in my putrid existence and dealings with females. And the reason I am stating this is for record purposes so as to finally bring this thread to culmination, since I started it and to show that I did indeed learn a thing or two.

Look at dating, which is a loaded thing. Everyone is into this shyt and most guys think that this is the avenue to figure out chicks, by spending endless money and time taking them out. The word "dating" is simply a word that is understood to be "romantic interactions with women". But if you want to strip it down to mere romantic interactions, that doesn't mean you need to be "dating" in order to do it. After all, any couple that has been together for a significant period, look at their behavior. They stay home most of the time, and watch movies from Blockbuster, or do other shyt like they did before they met. This whole "OMG LETS GO OUT TO DINNER" ritual is really stupid.

When you know how to trigger attraction in a woman, all the "normal" rules go away. If a woman feels that powerful emotional attraction for you, then she'll do anything with you just to be in your presence and have your attention. After you got that down, all you say is "come over here". No dates required nor any time thinking of "where to go out to". Now, if you buy her dinner 10 times, call her 10 times a day, and chase her around, then it will be expected that you continue this pattern and provide for her. Then you can be 80% sure she is running back to her ex who is a "jerk" in her words and getting bored of you. Moderation. I've learned that attraction doesn't have a timeline. It happens very quickly, when you least expect it, and if you know how to trigger it and you don't need a lot of "date ideas" once you do. After all that, women don't care what you do together, as long as she's with you. Well, at least that's my two cents.

Few comments:
The idea of calling the girl over to your house for all the reasons you stated above is good, and in essence is a better "bonding" environment and eventually more intimate (not sex!)... BUT<, sometimes for certain people it is a rather large problem since they still live with their parents, and should i even get into that... oh Lord!>>
Also, this is not true for all girls.. and if i dare say too many i have met. Some would rather be pampered and treated like royality at the expensive restaurants and pocket drying dates. BUT, this does not mean that these kind of people are not capable of eventually falling in love, or being very attracted to the guy as the girls who would rather come to your home.. ofcourse though, there are thos bastards who like to be pampered and then once the money is gone so are they... or they will just sit there and nag and complain until you get sick of them....
Im sorry to have to generalize this way.. i do understand all the exceptions.. and hopefully their are more than i think

[hyebruin]

i like being taken out to dinner HOWEVER!!!! if the guy calls me 10X! in one day!,unless he's calling to check and see if i'm doing ok and i've just experienced a natural disaster or a terrrorism attack,... then he's out!

i am not quite sure about other girls but if i like a guy, doesn't matter what we do as long as i'm in his company and he's crazy about being in mine

money can't buy attraction! that's for sure

[GSTracer05]

i like being taken out to dinner HOWEVER!!!! if the guy calls me 10X! in one day!,unless he's calling to check and see if i'm doing ok and i've just experienced a natural disaster or a terrrorism attack,... then he's out!

i am not quite sure about other girls but if i like a guy, doesn't matter what we do as long as i'm in his company and he's crazy about being in mine

money can't buy attraction! that's for sure

It doesn't matter what you do? What if you had feelings for this guy who never wanted to go out. He just wanted to stay home and watch tv with you. (Hypothetically speaking). You could handle that throughout a relationship?

As for going to nice dinners, it has nothing to do with "chasing" and "pampering" women like some of you know-it-alls are stating. I like to go to nice dinners. I am not taking my dates, or g/f to a nice dinner because I want to spend big $$$ on her to impress her. I go to a nice dinner because the environment is pleasant, the food is good, I'm HUNGRY, and I'd like to share that experience with someone thats dear to me. I like to go places, see things, and I like to share that experience with someone I care about. There are degrees to that as well. I'm not saying I go to some fancy shmancy French resteraunt where I spend $150 on a plate to get a little piece of chicken with a small side of 2 carrots. The "planning" of it shows to alot of women that you are willing to take the initiative to do and see things with them by your side. The "come over" line is good when you have a girl who's fallen for you and your future plans do not including anything past sex.