Golden Rules Of Dating

[Anonymouse]

On which one do you agree with?

Yes, I'm rather unclear as well.

[spiral]

... but a girl shouldnt insist that the guy insists.

That one Emil.

and hellooo

[gevo]

I don't know why I thought you were a guy

she is a guy damnit!!!!!

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

No matter what the guy should insist, end of story!!!!!just beause he is the guy!!!!!!!!

[Emil]

That one Emil.

and hellooo

If you're talking about the first few dates a guy and girl go on, yes the guy should pay. But if you've known the guy for a few months, there's no problem in my eyes with the girl paying.

Hello to you also.

[Anonymouse]

Golden Rule Three: Never date girls who have sex on a first date. Unless you are into that, you should know that she is easy, and chances are, not just with you either. Unless that was what you were going for, then by all means indulge.

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

P.S. I am a wonderful female, for those u think that i am a male!!!!

Next Rule: guys give compliments to the girls no matter what, and vice versa.

[CatWoman]

For guys:
1-If you just met the girl, offer to pay, it shows you're interested and wanna impress her... and definitely don't freak out when the bill comes. haha
2-Concentrate on HER and only her... it's the biggest turn off when your eyes are wondering around.


For girls:
1-Don't plan your entire future with the guy before anything happens... actually this is more of a pisces characteristic!
2-Don't think you can change a guy, cuz you can't.
3-Don't get back with your ex... there is a reason he is your ex.

[spiral]

If you're talking about the first few dates a guy and girl go on, yes the guy should pay. But if you've known the guy for a few months, there's no problem in my eyes with the girl paying.

True.

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[hyebruin]

most important rule for girls:

no matter how much you WANT a guy, never let him know just how much!!! make him work for it and earn some brownie points keep him interested but let him know that there IS life after him just like there was life before him.


and regarding one of the other rules! why the heck not date a girl who's been raped? that is just so sad! think about it! what if it was your sister or cousin or a friend or a loved one??? it's bad enough they had to endure a monster (this is just too unimaginable) and then to be ostracized because of it! what if you fall in love with a girl only to find out later on she was raped?

LIFE 'rapes' us all in small/big ways with dissapointment, pain, and heartache! every single person on this earth has some kind of baggage, mid-sized luggage and sometimes even carry on luggage (ok, bad joke, but seriously now!!)

so what then? people should be discriminated based on their life experiences? what if someone had a parent who was alcoholic or a drug addict? or if someone grew up an orphan or was adopted? does that 'disqualify' them?

hey, it's easy to find ways to reject and not invite people in our lives, but wouldn't it be wiser to give people a chance to teach US something about ourselves and about life? and to get to know the person inside?... perhaps then the issue that was so visible and important would be hardly visible at all!