Golden Rules Of Dating

[violette829]

I think the whole "who have you slept with" conversation takes place when the couple has already established a relationship. This can be the most awkward conversation that takes place, but I want to know how many girls my man has slept with, just for my own well being. Imagine, he goes, "Oh about a hundred or so, I lost count after 89"....

[GSTracer05]

Guys: NEVER touch the girl on the first date. Be a challenge. Even if you think she's into you, and she's hot and you can't resist, RESIST!

I don't agree with this one dear Violette . By touching if you're meaning in obnoxious and groping way, then yes of course do not touch. But there's a thing about the touch that signals like/admiration/interest. When you are opening a door, a gentle touch on the back as she enters. Or a small touch on the arm during a conversation.

Girls do the same many times. Also when girls play with their hair by placing it behind an ear. The crossing of legs. Etc.

[violette829]

Oh guys: ALWAYS ALWAYS PICK HER UP! I know somtimes, you have to drive a far distance to get to her, but it should be worth it. I can't stand men who want to "meet up" somewhere..LOL So LAME

[GSTracer05]

I think the whole "who have you slept with" conversation takes place when the couple has already established a relationship. This can be the most awkward conversation that takes place, but I want to know how many girls my man has slept with, just for my own well being. Imagine, he goes, "Oh about a hundred or so, I lost count after 89"....

If you establish a relationship and then find out he's been with 100 girls. Then what? (By relationship, i mean a serious one, some people think they are in a relationship after 2 dates). Is it not easier to know when you are still in the dating/getting to know each other phase?

[violette829]

I don't agree with this one dear Violette . By touching if you're meaning in obnoxious and groping way, then yes of course do not touch. But there's a thing about the touch that signals like/admiration/interest. When you are opening a door, a gentle touch on the back as she enters. Or a small touch on the arm during a conversation.

Girls do the same many times. Also when girls play with their hair by placing it behind an ear. The crossing of legs. Etc.

Oh little touches, I like. It's the groping and the constant attempts at copping a feel. It's pretty sick! One time, I actually left a guy on the side of the freeway, but we digress....Yes groping/fondling should never be done.

[GSTracer05]

Oh guys: ALWAYS ALWAYS PICK HER UP! I know somtimes, you have to drive a far distance to get to her, but it should be worth it. I can't stand men who want to "meet up" somewhere..LOL So LAME

I have a 30min driving distance radius. Not driving 2 hours to pick up some chick.

[violette829]

If you establish a relationship and then find out he's been with 100 girls. Then what? (By relationship, i mean a serious one, some people think they are in a relationship after 2 dates). Is it not easier to know when you are still in the dating/getting to know each other phase?

Alright I didn't mean when you're in love. To me, if it's just a date, I don't really care how many girls he's slept with, as long as he's not sleeping with me. LOL I sometimes go on dates just to see if there's a spark, or chemistry with the guy. That doesn't mean I need to know what his entire sex life has been about.

[violette829]

I have a 30min driving distance radius. Not driving 2 hours to pick up some chick.

OOOOOOOOOOOOOH you just went down my list of favorite forumers. Some chick? Sweetie, I'm not talking about the one night stand with Becky kind of a date. I'm talking about a girl who you are really into and want to see more often. I don't think 2 hours is a lot of driving. Besides, aren't you into cars? You should enjoy the drive.

[GSTracer05]

Alright I didn't mean when you're in love. To me, if it's just a date, I don't really care how many girls he's slept with, as long as he's not sleeping with me. LOL I sometimes go on dates just to see if there's a spark, or chemistry with the guy. That doesn't mean I need to know what his entire sex life has been about.

So then at what point do you "need" to know? lol. Before you are an item or after? And if its after, and you get a large # of partners, do you break up? Personally I'd like to know before the whole "official" label of b/f g/f is placed on the relationship.

[Thai-Samurai]

Oh guys: ALWAYS ALWAYS PICK HER UP! I know somtimes, you have to drive a far distance to get to her, but it should be worth it. I can't stand men who want to "meet up" somewhere..LOL So LAME

But I hate driving.