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Guys, would you go out with a girl taller than you?

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  • #71
    Originally posted by chille
    I am like 5'3/5'4 and I have never dated a guy who is shorter than me cuz that would look so akward! I am happy with my height. None of the guys I have dated (and all of them were tall starting with 6ft) have complained about my height. They all loved the idea that there is someone so tiny they need to take care of. And I love taller men just for one simple reason, it makes me feel weak and safe when there is a man who is bigger than me. I am a pretty strong person (spirit-wise), so it is awesome to feel weak sometimes and to hide behind someone's back

    Honey, you just summed up in one paragraph what I strive NOT to be. Weak? Taken care of? What the????

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    • #72
      Originally posted by gevo
      this isnt even worth 2 cents...
      I guess I'll have to elaborate...

      Armenian fathers (for the most part) are super protective of their daughters, to the point where many only go from home to school, sometimes work, and rarely hang out. So do these girls get to date and go through the motions of falling in love, getting their hearts broken, learning to love again, and developing into well rounded people? Nooooo... at the same time, guys DO wanna go out and have a good time, but can't with their own girls because of this taliban like hold the fathers have on them. So then we have boys going with other races.. to which the girls respond "xxxx them, I'll go out with other races too" and then were have this animosity between male aremnians and female armenians where girls consider all the males dogs who just want to xxxx around and show no interest in their own race and guys get the idea that the girls are all prudes and not worth hanging out with. This is not everyone, obviously, but there are quite a few families like this even in L.A.

      Any clearer?

      And Gevo, I suggest being a bit nicer. It's the Armenian thing to do.
      "All I know is I'm not a Marxist." -Karl Marx

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      • #73
        Originally posted by violette829
        Honey, you just summed up in one paragraph what I strive NOT to be. Weak? Taken care of? What the????
        Easy there Violette. Lena just didnt word her response clearly. I shall clarify it for you. She only means to say is that she wants to feel like a girl/feminine sometimes and be protected and fussed over. You might be the strongest and most confident guy or girl in the world, but sometimes it just feels good to have someone take care of you and worry about you a little. Makes a person feel appreciated/cared for I guess.
        Last edited by GSTracer05; 11-16-2004, 05:00 PM.

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        • #74
          Originally posted by HyeJinx1984
          I guess I'll have to elaborate...

          Armenian fathers (for the most part) are super protective of their daughters, to the point where many only go from home to school, sometimes work, and rarely hang out. So do these girls get to date and go through the motions of falling in love, getting their hearts broken, learning to love again, and developing into well rounded people? Nooooo... at the same time, guys DO wanna go out and have a good time, but can't with their own girls because of this taliban like hold the fathers have on them. So then we have boys going with other races.. to which the girls respond "xxxx them, I'll go out with other races too" and then were have this animosity between male aremnians and female armenians where girls consider all the males dogs who just want to xxxx around and show no interest in their own race and guys get the idea that the girls are all prudes and not worth hanging out with. This is not everyone, obviously, but there are quite a few families like this even in L.A.

          Any clearer?

          And Gevo, I suggest being a bit nicer. It's the Armenian thing to do.
          There are degrees of being protective and I don't agree with parents who chain their daughter to her bedroom but one day when you're a father and have a daughter you'll think a little different. You should be so fortunate to find a girl that comes from a nice family and is taught morals and values because one day she may be helping raise your own children. As a father, or even an older brother, you wouldnt want your daughter/sister to be out and about with every guy she comes across.

          I don't know about you, but as a guy, I have utmost respect for girls who care about their reputations. It has nothing to do with being prude, snobby, or stuck up. They are simply waiting to come across the guy they find themselves perfectly compatible with.

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          • #75
            Well, like you said, there are degrees and extremes. What I described is an extreme. And there's nothing loose, or immoral, or being-without-value, about hanging out with mixed company and having a good time... I know a lot of girls (curiously, none Armenian) like this and I don't consider any of them xxxxs. All I'm saying is I really don't think social depravity should be considered "strong family values"
            "All I know is I'm not a Marxist." -Karl Marx

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            • #76
              Originally posted by HyeJinx1984
              ..
              Any clearer?

              And Gevo, I suggest being a bit nicer. It's the Armenian thing to do.
              yes, it is clearer, you are setting the stage for you to get all the sex you wan from girls, and your mad that the 'hamest' ones that are extremely pretty wont even look at you ..

              does it really bother you that im being "mean"
              How do you hurt a masochist?
              -By leaving him alone.Forever.

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              • #77
                Originally posted by GSTracer05
                Easy there Violette. Lena just didnt word her response clearly. I shall clarify it for you. She only means to say is that she wants to feel like a girl/feminine sometimes and be protected and fussed over. You might be the strongest and most confident guy or girl in the world, but sometimes it just feels good to have someone take care of you and worry about you a little. Makes a person feel appreciated/cared for I guess.
                Thanks, Andrew. I appreciate that.
                And to everyone else I never thought people could be that rude just because they didnt get something. Sorry my wording is not perfect for you

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                • #78
                  Nobody was really rude.

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                  • #79
                    Originally posted by violette829
                    Honey, you just summed up in one paragraph what I strive NOT to be. Weak? Taken care of? What the????
                    Well, you know when you are always on your own, when you are always independ and strong to the extent that men feel like you are too smart for them, you want to have someone who still thinks he should protect you even though he will not. But just the idea makes me feel better. I am sure a weak woman like you doesnt know how it feels... Keep on trying...

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                    • #80
                      Originally posted by gevo
                      yes, it is clearer, you are setting the stage for you to get all the sex you wan from girls, and your mad that the 'hamest' ones that are extremely pretty wont even look at you ..

                      does it really bother you that im being "mean"
                      No, it bothers me that you're being inacurate.
                      "All I know is I'm not a Marxist." -Karl Marx

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