Broken Hearted

[Thai-Samurai]

God, people are idiots. Why would you go and talk to his ex about being in love with him? LOL

yeah but by doing so, if her ex is tellng the truth , about her b/f lying, than it was a good idea.

[CatWoman]

And even if he won't talk you, keep telling him that you love him.

LOL Baron... I'm not sure about that! He either loves this girl, or he doesn't... If he doesn't and is still into his ex there is nothing this girl can say to change that. Just one thing, don't be his backup plan, don't let him think oh I'll try to work it out with my ex... if it doesn't work out, ey I always have her(you) cuz she LOVES me! In such situations, most people know exactly what is the right thing to do and don't really need other's advice, the problem is they are too weak to do it.

[Anonymouse]

Hello everyone: I am broken hearted.... Some advice please? I fell in love in an Armenian man who was born in Lebanon, and came to the States when he young to live with his family. I was born in Korea, and would be considered
Amerasian, as my Father is white. I grew up in the States. I didn't know what Armenian was or even the history or traditions. I still don't, however if given the chance I would have loved to have been a part of it. I dated this man for
7 wonderful months. He was separated from his wife pending a divorce, and told me that he would never go back. I believed him. He married a white woman, and has a beautiful blonde young daughter, and step son. His Father passed away, and he decided to move out of his bachelor pad and in with his Mother to help with finances. This was hard on me, but he assured me he would be back once everything was settled. He told me his traditions are to mourn for his Father for 40 days with his family, and that he could not see me because of this. I understood. After some soul searching, I went to see his soon to be "ex-wife" to let her know that I loved him. As horrible as this was, I needed to know the truth, because he lied to me. She told me that he was apparently trying to get back in the house with her, and that she didn't want him. Even with everything, I feel I deserve a second chance,,, I told him, that I still wanted him. He hates me now, but I wake up everyday in love with this Armenian man with a pain in my heart..........

That is sad. Have you consulted a magic 8 ball yet ?

[SagGal]

Magic 8 ball.

Minka_Helpme:
From what you told us, I am not sure that you told this Armenian man what his wife told you. If I were you, I'd be furious that he lied. Tell him that you are mad at him. Don't give him the advantage of having control over your emotions like that. If you see that for some reason you two cannot be together, try to move on, as others said. Saying just move on is pretty simple but doing it is hard since it seems that you are really in love with this man. I am sorry for that. As I said, I think that you should let him know that you are mad at him for lying to you, if infact what his wife told you is the truth. If you're not mad, which in my opinion you should be, pretend that you are and tell him how much he hurt you and that he didn't leave you a choice so you had to go to his wife and talk to her. Sorry about your broken heart, but ever heard of this, "A broken heart continues to beat"? All the best, Minka_Helpme.

[Minka_Helpme]

I truly want to thank everyone for their honesty and support... ie positive or negative.
I want you all to know that I am a single Mother of two children that miss him too.
I have told him that I was upset and deserved to know the truth. Now that the truth is out, he hates me.. I tell him how much I love him, but he won't answer calls or emails. No matter how bad things got, I would still take him back with all the Joy in my heart for him.... a wonderful Armenian man. He will always be in my heart, even though I will have to get on with my life. I know he loves me too........ I just know it.

[Anonymouse]

I truly want to thank everyone for their honesty and support... ie positive or negative.
I want you all to know that I am a single Mother of two children that miss him too.
I have told him that I was upset and deserved to know the truth. Now that the truth is out, he hates me.. I tell him how much I love him, but he won't answer calls or emails. No matter how bad things got, I would still take him back with all the Joy in my heart for him.... a wonderful Armenian man. He will always be in my heart, even though I will have to get on with my life. I know he loves me too........ I just know it.

Oh my how touching. I have a tear that travelled its way down from my eye to my cheek, down my arm to the tip of my finger and right into this very own keyboard on which I'm typing. It was truly an "artsy farsty" moment that deserves a movie ( independent film that is ).

[Harut82]

I truly want to thank everyone for their honesty and support... ie positive or negative.
I want you all to know that I am a single Mother of two children that miss him too.
I have told him that I was upset and deserved to know the truth. Now that the truth is out, he hates me.. I tell him how much I love him, but he won't answer calls or emails. No matter how bad things got, I would still take him back with all the Joy in my heart for him.... a wonderful Armenian man. He will always be in my heart, even though I will have to get on with my life. I know he loves me too........ I just know it.

you are being over dramatic and your thinking too hard. It's over find someone else. Make things easy on youself and date a Korean guy. I think interracial relationships get too complicated, you are a perfect example of this. My brother is also dating someone that is not Armenian, she is a very nice person but everyone in our family hates her. Is that right? Maybe not, but its just the way things are.

[XxgoeyxX]

I truly want to thank everyone for their honesty and support... ie positive or negative.
I want you all to know that I am a single Mother of two children that miss him too.
I have told him that I was upset and deserved to know the truth. Now that the truth is out, he hates me.. I tell him how much I love him, but he won't answer calls or emails. No matter how bad things got, I would still take him back with all the Joy in my heart for him.... a wonderful Armenian man. He will always be in my heart, even though I will have to get on with my life. I know he loves me too........ I just know it.

Lolll I love how you say all these things about him then add this "wonderful armenian man" next to it. loll..

But I have to tell you most of us here have not gotten married and dont have 2 children. I think by now you should be more mature enough to solve this problem. Armenian or not, the man is a pig. Get over it...take care of your children. Take a little time off with them. Raise them to have a good life, with morals and ethics, so they wont continue to make the mistakes you have committed and your lover has committed. End of story.

[Anonymouse]

The moral of this thread is that you have to wear a condom.

[Mags]

God forbid this couple had reproduced...