Originally posted by felizitation Mmm... the scorecared thing was derived from what you said, nothing sexual (the truth).
It's like you've established a list of what you want to do, or to be able to do with someone. For instance (I'm making it rough)
"- I like dancing, I need a man who like dancing. If not, I will get bored when we will go to the dance hall"
Ok, the guy like dancing : good score (and no disturbance in your habits), the guy hate dancing, and his hatred is so big that he will NEVER come with you on a dance floor : bad point (interaction of habits)
The examples you've drawn in your last thread is, for me, exactly the same. It's functionnal: each person in the couple has a function (be here and sympathize when he is sad etc ...).
For me, sharing something is not that. You choose some day to share your life with someone, but the aim is to know each other: you show how you live, what's your passions, habits etc... But it is extrinsic to you. You offer the means for the other person to begin knowing you.
Many time i'd been with a girl but i had felt alone. It's not because there's someone in you life that you're not alone. You're not alone when you feel that someone is knowing you (so it does not bother me to take the train alone)
Besides, the fact is that perfection is vanity, moreover, nearly perfection would scare any one. This feeling is (farly) tied to human notion of happiness.
PS: I'm French, I thought my english was as my left feet: nearly perfect
It's like you've established a list of what you want to do, or to be able to do with someone. For instance (I'm making it rough)
"- I like dancing, I need a man who like dancing. If not, I will get bored when we will go to the dance hall"
Ok, the guy like dancing : good score (and no disturbance in your habits), the guy hate dancing, and his hatred is so big that he will NEVER come with you on a dance floor : bad point (interaction of habits)
The examples you've drawn in your last thread is, for me, exactly the same. It's functionnal: each person in the couple has a function (be here and sympathize when he is sad etc ...).
For me, sharing something is not that. You choose some day to share your life with someone, but the aim is to know each other: you show how you live, what's your passions, habits etc... But it is extrinsic to you. You offer the means for the other person to begin knowing you.
Many time i'd been with a girl but i had felt alone. It's not because there's someone in you life that you're not alone. You're not alone when you feel that someone is knowing you (so it does not bother me to take the train alone)
Besides, the fact is that perfection is vanity, moreover, nearly perfection would scare any one. This feeling is (farly) tied to human notion of happiness.
PS: I'm French, I thought my english was as my left feet: nearly perfect
I think the internet is very hard to read when it comes to SARCASM. I suppose I should have included in that post something impossible, like I want a guy who can fly, so that you guys would see I was trying to be silly. My dears, my whole point is that I DO NOT want any perfection. I think imperfections (or scars) are what makes people beautiful. And I don;t mean beautiful like pretty to look at. Maybe I should go back and delete that post or something. My joke has not found it's proper audience, the kind that laughs. Like I said, I was trying to be funny haha before. Do you really think I would be so high and mighty as to assume it would be settling if I was with anyone who did not embody all of those qualities I listed? No way! As for the last thing I said being functional... I think you're wrong, or else you misunderstand me. I think that's a way to really get to know eachother, the great fun of life is to see it through anothers eyes. It is not a job you must perform in said relationship. You know how they say the world is such a simpler place through a child's eyes? I think the joy of things comes from seeing then through another eyes. I would get a bigger joy out of something if it gave joy to someone I liked/loved and I saw them experiencing it... you know?? Moreover, I don't think you need someone in your life to feel not alone. I didn't say I want someone to fill the void. I just said it's nice to have someone along. I agree with you that you CAN feel completely alone even when you're with someone.... anyway, I have no idea what you mean about english and left feet. lol. I think we're just confusing eachother with this whole english business. =)
Ok bud, if I DO in fact find this guy, I don't think I want the sheeit kicked out of him by you. Silly! Then I'd lose him... As if he wasn't hard enough to find in the first place!!
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