Ever lasting/Ever fading love!?

[karoaper]

hehehe, the above is the most realistic one yet.

Thanks!! You should read my book "Men are from Glendale, women are from Yerevan"!! It's a must-read for those looking to date Armenians. hehehe

[thedebutante]

I like the list, or more correctly, your model of a perfect match, but as the complexity of a model grows, it often becomes very hard to prove the validity of such model. In the simplest case this could be due to possible increase in disparities and inconsistancies of it. For example, "Not feminist" and "Defends her rights" could be seen as a bit contradicting. Another problem with blown out models is the repetition and duplication.

God, I'm such a nerd.

For myself, I'd rather feel than qualify. The perfect romantic match for me is a best friend [a person you'd never want to leave because you'd miss her presence too much] that you'd also like to get naked.

no wonder you're already married!

[Siamanto]

Horny
Sexy

I thought that it was about "non-physical" attributes? But I understand that one can argue that "sexy" is not necessarily a "physical" quality.

Two days ago, I was at a cafe when someone started projecting text on the building across the street. Parts of text were not legible. One of them said something like - as much as I remember:
"Sex is a curtain
because love is sacred
Love is not celebrated only with the gift of sex
It is celebrated with flowers...and kisses
That are not meant for any pretty face
But yours alone
.....
Because love is sacred
It speaks in deeper language
........
Sex is a a curtain
That is opened by love"

Rich

I will consider her wealth as a reason to stay around, the day I will start looking down at myself!

I like the list, or more correctly, your model of a perfect match, but as the complexity of a model grows, it often becomes very hard to prove the validity of such model.
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God, I'm such a nerd.

First of all, I would not use the word "model" and prefer the words "collection" or "list;" a model is meant to suggest - and imply - a sort of underlying coherence or consistence; a collection is loose by essence. I would not subsumed humans - maybe adult males??? - with a model.
Also, each - at least most - attribute in the list above is vague and ambiguous enough to even consider thinking about the "validity of such [a] model."
LOL Yes, you're a nerd!

In the simplest case this could be due to possible increase in disparities and inconsistancies of it. For example, "Not feminist" and "Defends her rights" could be seen as a bit contradicting. Another problem with blown out models is the repetition and duplication.

The relative vagueness and ambiguity - i.e. fuzziness - of the attributes makes it difficult to assess the overlap between two attributes. It would be (almost???) impossible to prove or disprove the orthogonality - or "independence" as meant in Mathematics - of the attributes.
They are meant to be felt not assessed. It's about poetry not science.

As for "not feminist" and "defends her rights," personally, I don't see any contradiction. Do you see any contradiction between "defends the rights of the proletariat/poor" and "non communist/socialist?" I don't.

Feminism has become a struggle about the role(s) of women in a Society, not her rights. Feminism has become a caricature of masculinity.

For myself, I'd rather feel than qualify. The perfect romantic match for me is a best friend [a person you'd never want to leave because you'd miss her presence too much] that you'd also like to get naked.

In that case, please try to feel the poetry; don't try to assess and validate the model!

[karoaper]

Dangit, I forgot to read the manual to Siamanto's Ultimate Lover List. I can see it was the wrong thing to do.
Thanks for corrections .
So when is v. 2.0 coming out?
Can't wait.

[Siamanto]

Thanks for corrections .

You're welcome! I thought that it would be the correct thing to do! You have "corrected" me and because - as you say - one should be thankful when "corrected," I thought that I should be thankful by "correcting" you!
Just curious, do you always perceive as corrections, the expression of an opinion different than yours - or should I say the expression of the "Ultimate Truth?"
I feel so happy that the concept and feeling are foreign to my mindset! :

Dangit, I forgot to read the manual to Siamanto's Ultimate Lover List. I can see it was the wrong thing to do.

Some more "corrections!"
- My comments apply to any quality describing a human - woman or man, friend or lover, young or old!
- It was not about what is the "Ultimate Lover List." It was about "What drives you to make a relationship you are in last? " In other words, personal preferences. Actually, most of what is mentioned in my list may - and is by many - considered as undesirable.

So when is v. 2.0 coming out?
Can't wait.

Has there been another version of the 10 commandments? No!

[CatWoman]

The topic of this thread is too romantic for me to respond in... What's wrong with you guys?

[Siamanto]

The topic of this thread is too romantic for me to respond in... What's wrong with you guys?

If "romantic" is not your style, would you prefer?

Angry and hateful Crowds by Bauhaus ( Lyrics ) ( Music )

Disillusioned and distrustful Tainted Love by Marc Almond, with The Pus sycat Dolls (Fashion Rocks 2004) (Lyrics) (Music)

Libertine and decadent Molly's Chambers by Kings of Leon (Lyrics) (Music)

Horny and - for some offensively - bold Horny by B-Rezell (Censored) (Music)

Any other suggestions?

[CatWoman]

If "romantic" is not your style, would you prefer?

Angry and hateful Crowds by Bauhaus ( Lyrics ) ( Music )

Disillusioned and distrustful Tainted Love by Marc Almond, with The Pus sycat Dolls (Fashion Rocks 2004) (Lyrics) (Music)

Libertine and decadent Molly's Chambers by Kings of Leon (Lyrics) (Music)

Horny and - for some offensively - bold Horny by B-Rezell (Censored) (Music)

Any other suggestions?

Too romantic is not my style... but neither is anger or rest of the stuff you posted.

[MsSarcastic]

I love it...I love the list...anyone who says its too picky needs to grow up.

[Siamanto]

I love it...I love the list....

Thank you...and I'm not being sarcastic!
You probably relate to the woman in the verbal painting that is the list. I hope that someone will be nuanced and refined enough to notice it, and have the courage to appreciate and enjoy it.

anyone who says its too picky needs to grow up.

I hope that she won't grow up too much, otherwise she would cease from being playful, lose her dreams and soul.
I sometimes say: "Why converse with the woman that you are when I can't play with the child in you?"