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Are You Currently In A Relationship?

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  • One-Way
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    Yeah, but I'll probably be back here in a week talking about how she's gone, and how I ended up with a new, stupider girl.

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  • jgk3
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    yeah makes sense... Then it's really up to you to downplay the situation if you wanna still hang out with her. Maybe if you show her you can play it casually, it would satisfy her more? It's tough, but you don't have much room to work with.

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  • One-Way
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    Nail on the head, again. You're a smart man.

    The thing is, I don't mind messing around with girls at parties. I'm still a kid, I should just be living. But, I don't want that right now. I don't want to just mess around with this girl, and if she really wants that, that's probably the reason it's never working out. I think she just sees me as another guy to fool around with, but still cares about me. I think I care way too much, and I see her as something more. That's why when I talk to her, and when she doesn't pay much attention to me, I feel more sad, because I realize she doesn't want what I want.

    Somehow, I'm willing to trust her again. After all that she did. But I don't know if I should. She's never told me she'll be trustworthy. She keeps acting like a little kid. That alone should be a reason I should leave, but for SOME reason, I stay. I guess it's because I'm sick of having nobody, and when somebody comes along, I stick with them, even if there are a few flaws. That's basically all it is.

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  • jgk3
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    that sucks... She seems to keep inviting you to parties, that should be a hint as to what the problem is. She wants to fool around, nothing serious, just lots of fun, yet you want something more real.

    So as you said, she looks confused because she's not sure she's doing the right thing by inviting you to these parties.

    I personally don't like parties for this reason... People are there to fool around stupidly, at least people my age. Getting drunk or high for no reason, thinking it's essential if they wish to mingle... Lack of maturity and "profound shallowness" is all it is. I never have fun at stupid parties.

    It really doesn't look like it's gonna work until you can trust eachother... You'll have to re-establish that trust if you want anything with her. Start from scratch.

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  • One-Way
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    Well, guys. I saw that girl tonight, for the first time since everything ended.

    She was going out tonight, and I had nothing to do, so when I got home, she called me, and told me I should come to her friend's house for a party. I went, and I guess it was weird seeing her after what happened. She was acting like she was before, nothing different. I could sense a little change, though. As if she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with me. After all, we haven't made anything official.

    Anyway, afterwards, she had to go, so now I'm home. Thinking. Confused. Annoyed.

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  • Anonymouse
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    Originally posted by Kiko
    except you Anonymouse?
    What part of 'everyone' did you not understand?

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  • Anahita
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    Originally posted by jgk3
    Discreet... Tell him you "kinda" like him. Nothing more. Act accordingly to his reactions, and how far you can go with the act of "kinda" liking him. If it works, then you can show your true feelings, but beware... Guys get intimidated if you become clingy, if you start talking poetically about how how this guy is the sun that shines through all clouds, and yadda yadda yadda :P

    Kind of a tricky business, but your successes can backfire as well, if he in turn becomes too clingy with you, calls too often for your comfort, but I don't get that impression from the description of him you've given so far. However, the whole moving to another country sounds kinda demanding... I dunno about that part.
    The moving to another country part isn't weird or demanding, from my point of view. We've both lived there at the same time. We've been working together to protect nature there, since. I suppose I'll do what I do and say what I think... I could feel like a fool, but I KNOW that at least, with him, even if he wasn't interested in more than friends, we will still be close. And we will continue to do what we've been doing for years... I know that without doubt. I don't want to feel hurt, though.

    I appreciate your help. Thanks.

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  • Kiko
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    except you Anonymouse?

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  • Anonymouse
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    Everyone knows the answers to everything in the Love and Romance forum.

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  • jgk3
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    Originally posted by Anahita
    I'm not great at the being 'discreet' part, though. My situation is even more weird than normal... can you give me an example of how you think I could do that?
    Discreet... Tell him you "kinda" like him. Nothing more. Act accordingly to his reactions, and how far you can go with the act of "kinda" liking him. If it works, then you can show your true feelings, but beware... Guys get intimidated if you become clingy, if you start talking poetically about how how this guy is the sun that shines through all clouds, and yadda yadda yadda :P

    Kind of a tricky business, but your successes can backfire as well, if he in turn becomes too clingy with you, calls too often for your comfort, but I don't get that impression from the description of him you've given so far. However, the whole moving to another country sounds kinda demanding... I dunno about that part.

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