Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?
I believe the mind is unisex, and is trained by the different circumstances that one experiences (although there's a biological component to many circumstances)...
So far, I've only really been with one girl in my life, and this one girl taught me very much in the year and a half span we lasted:
I think men are able to put themselves in the shoes of a girl and vice versa, if they have the right circumstances. I'm the type of person who does not blame things on others, but himself, and so unlike others, I blame all my shortcomings on myself too, that includes shortcomings as a "man", or the image of what it takes to be a "man". I'm far from feminine, but I don't believe in being a man either, it seems too shallow for my taste.
The first time we had sex, I felt like a man... I noticed I was now talking to her differently, I felt more dominant, stronger, relentless with my words... I noticed this change right away, because normally, I feel openminded and meek. I feel unisex in my natural state, but when I had sex, all that changed.
Her on the other hand, changed her behavior too that day, she became more submissive, sounded more womanly... It was odd and very noticeable, since she too, often takes on unisex behavior (except maybe when she's xxxxxy, but that's not a important).
I did not like this change, it felt shallow... Sex can change a relationship this much? Do you know how long we waited to have sex (although we engaged in almost every possible aspect of foreplay)? Over a year! Suddenly, when we started having sex, things changed. It lost its glamour and started to define the dominance and submissiveness of the relationship once and forall. We didn't last long after that, yet we are still the best of friends and continue to philosophize together and talk about the various feelings we experience, talk about our relationships with others and ourselves, it's a great bond we have...
She's currently trying to figure herself out thought and is in a "more than friends" relationship with someone else now. He's probably her second "bf" I guess, and that lack of experience we had with other people did lead to tensions since we still know little about ourselves.
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Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?
Originally posted by One-WayI hate women.
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Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?
I am sad that One-way’s thread was canceled (per his request).
His thread was (to paraphrase—that is, let’s pretend the topic is….) ‘the differences between men and women…’
What are the differences? What is similar? Why don't women just say what they think! Why can't men be more understanding? If women don't say, how do they expect men to be understanding? etc...Last edited by Anahita; 05-20-2006, 07:47 PM.
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Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?
Originally posted by One-WayIt's time for a serious thread.
Are any of you in a relationship? Dating someone? Or even just talking to someone, trying to get to know them to make something happen in the future?
No.. my last real relation was over a year ago with a russian girl. we lasted about 2 years and my move from st. louis to phoenix was pretty much the break up.. although we tried the long distance thing on and off..she was about to move down with me but i decided to cut it off since i could not trust her!
Although it has it's ups and downs, I enjoy being single for the most part. I am able to spend more time with friends and to fully devote time to goals.. I've been on several dates but it seems the older I am getting the pickier I get as well.
sorry to re-post an old question.
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Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?
Originally posted by Anahitavent
When I was that young, I used to keep small accidents I would have from my parents because they would get way too upset/stressed over it (even though I didn't really care)
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Originally posted by AnahitaI don't know that this is the right thread to post, or even if I should. I GOTTA vent somehow.
I am feeling sad about a relationship I lost and another that I hope I didn't harm.
This morning I made breakfast for my 5 year old child (a little girl... odd subtopic for later.) She at her apple cinnamon toast while I sorted laundry. We were packing to go away for a few days. I found a weird (heavy) basket in my bedroom (my daughter packed that basket full of blankets and pillows...AND) I picked the basket up and moved that aside while I put away laundry. About 5 minutes later, I went to the bathroom. (I have a condo with 2 bedrooms.) While I was there, my daughter got frantic and said 'mommy, don't go in my bedroom.'
I'm peeing in the bathroom and saying, "what?" She said, "I forgot what you told me about wrapping up Cody like a dolly.... Kitty isn't moving." (THE KITTY was wrapped up in blankets. She died.) That's horrible.
I later learned that my child hid what happened because she knew that what she did was naughty. She knew that wrapping up kitties like dollies was very bad (But, if I knew the moment my kid found out there was a problem, I could have maybe saved the cat. I feel very guilty. I've, in the past, given CPR to a neighbor's cat that was in a house fire and the EMT's even arrived to give oxygen for the little girl's cat (who lost her house) (I didn't give 'mouth to mouth', in case you woner, it's a learned technique with the hand cupped around the mouth of an animal to give breath).
This happened and then my child tried to 'hide' what happened from me. After that time hiding, there was no hope to save her, Cody.
Cody died. I could not revive her. She was an old cat (I've had her with me for 1/2 my whole life) who lived a good life, with an animal rights activist, non-the-less. Still, I wonder if she )daughter) ignored my STRONG NO'S about that (much like don't talk to strangers), what else could she ignore or 'forget'?
Now I'm even more worried about my child, my daughter....
Plus, today my car broke down and my daughter got her fingers smashed in the in the inner/hinge part of a door (and also failed to tell me there was a problem... just eeeeemmmmm(gettin louder...) .. till I SAW!)
I'm not going to be subtle. I am in need of some kind of sympathy or kindness, right now.
I'm sorry.
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Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?
Originally posted by One-WayIf you had to vent, why not post it in The Vent Thread?
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