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We had been talking and hanging out for a couple of months. After that, we got together, started dating. About a month later, it was her birthday party, where it happened. She was drunk, but what she did, she was sober during it. It was a long argument. She admitted it was her fault. She apologized. We understood each other, so it was okay. Then, she decided to stop talking for a while, and we did. Then it was back to normal. Then she told me we shouldn't date anymore because she feels like I'm into something she's not in. She said she wasn't ready for a relationship, and that since I was, she was leading me on. It wasn't because of the cheating we broke up for good. I mean, if someone told me they got cheated on, I'd be like, "You're stupid. Break up." But you don't know how it's like until it happens. Ironically, we became closer. Me saying this is worthless because I can't explain, you won't get it. But I see your point.
We're friends now. I can't see her the same, so everytime she tells me we should hang out or whatever, it's hard.
I was talking to a friend of mine who was talking to me about one her good male friends. She was telling how he cheated on his gf etc. She said that, when people hear the words cheated/cheting etc they automatically assume they are an idiot and no good for nothing etc. but she said, when you the story etc and reasons behind it, it makes it easier to understand and you can actually symathise with them rather than ignore them etc.
But I guess it's different for everyone. I have never been cheated on nor have cheated so I can't say how it feels.
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