Sex

[bell-the-cat]

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I suppose, as a woman (knowing how many men think), I could go out and have sex whenever I want. I don’t want that. So… I’ve gone over a year without sex. I don’t want to have sex with someone who I don’t feel love (more than normal love for all.) That's now killing me, though.

I gotta find someone I love, and also loves me, to have great sex with... and often...

But you don't find "someone you love", you find someone you gradually become in love with. I mean - you don't start off from the position of loving someone, you start from the position that the someone is someone you think you could love.
The trouble is trying to find that potentual someone, and handling the dissapointment of all the someones that in the end turn out not to be the one. And worse, when the someone is exactly what you want, but doesn't think the same about you.

[Thai-Samurai]

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I suppose, as a woman (knowing how many men think), I could go out and have sex whenever I want. I don’t want that. So… I’ve gone over a year without sex. I don’t want to have sex with someone who I don’t feel love (more than normal love for all.) That's now killing me, though.

[edit] I gotta find someone I love, and also loves me, to have great sex with... and often...

[edit] to vanish in a few minutes... if you only lived nearby

so you're saying if a girl doesn't have sex for awhile it starts to kill her?

[jgk3]

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that's also a good post that I'll remember.

[loseyourname]

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I’m wondering: what percentage of men, if they could, would have sex with a different supermodel every weekend? And, in a bit, I'll wonder why.

I'd much rather have sex with someone good at having sex, and open-minded enough to engage in extremely non-traditional sex acts, than someone that is simply very good-looking. Not that I'm looking for ugly pieces of trash with no limits, but some balance is to be preferred.

[Anahita]

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i have a question would it be wrong to have sex with a girl who is 8 year older then you

No, nothing wrong with only an age difference. However...

lets say 16 year old male and 24 year old female ,the 16 year old loves her alot more then life and wants to marry her and does give a damn about the age ,and the girl as well .

Yes, something is very wrong with that. That is child abuse--a felony, I believe.

so you're saying if a girl doesn't have sex for awhile it starts to kill her?

Well, not really killing me… but that is extremely frustrating

[jgk3]

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all that frustration can work to alienate the chance of you finding the right someone... Try to let it go, let those expectations go. Smile at the thought, but don't get carried away.

[Thai-Samurai]

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But then no one will want to marry you.

[Otto3]

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16 and 24 is very diiferent age one should be careful...you know it would be less problem if itwas 26 and 34... but who knows..they shouldgive it a try... rollthe dice neverthink twice... outcome is never a loss

[Anahita]

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16 and 24 is very diiferent age one should be careful...you know it would be less problem if itwas 26 and 34... but who knows..they shouldgive it a try... rollthe dice neverthink twice... outcome is never a loss

I know that if this is a real situation, she should certainly know better. He should know that if he really thinks he loves her, sex between them could send her to prison. A 16 year old boy doesn't have the experience to even understand the situation. A 24 year old woman does. A boy matures lots between 16 and 18...

If this is a real situation, certainly wait till the guy is 18, at least.

That (16/24) is a very bad idea, however you look at that.

[Quarteria]

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How many times does 24 go into 16?

Anyway, it's statutory rape, no matter who is the older party.