confused and hearth broken!

[sad_eyes]

Re: confused and hearth broken!

I think you should show some sympathy towards him. After all he did tell you before your marriage and that does take alot for someone to admit. But he was young and it didnt work. It doesnt mean that it wont work between the two of you. The fact that he came out and told you what he felt and what he did shows that he IS trust worthy and that he does care for you. You obviously care about him, the feeling of marriage between you two is mutual. If you can still look at him and see him as your husband and companion than learn to appreciate the fact that he told you the truth.

[Fedayeen]

Re: confused and hearth broken!

I hate that, can't people just be straight forward

Now you don't know should you trust him or not

[crusader1492]

Re: confused and hearth broken!

If he's Armenian, go ahead and marry him...if he's not, kick him to the curb

[Schism]

Re: confused and hearth broken!

If you love him, then you got to accept it & I agree wit Sip that is what an engagemnt is for to know eachother. At least he told you now then later.. I dont think his keeping anything else from you or lets hope not.

[NaiNoriTatiA]

Re: confused and hearth broken!

If you love him, why not ? at least he told the truth before u married him

[Schism]

Re: confused and hearth broken!

If you love him, why not ? at least he told the truth before u married him

Exactly what Im saying. Imagine what would've happened if he told you when you guys got married.

[NaiNoriTatiA]

Re: confused and hearth broken!

Exactly what Im saying. Imagine what would've happened if he told you when you guys got married.

yeah, then the situation will be even harder and more painful!! and the thing will be that you are already married you cant get out !!

[asian]

Re: confused and hearth broken!

Trust can be such a sensitive issue...You probably feel betrayed for the 3 years of this relationship. You probably question it, wondering what was the foundation of this relationship then? I know you don't want to feel like a fool after all this, but you probably loved him so much & you don't want to let it go. I bet you want to atleast start over & have him do it right this time. Well, 3 years is long, so maybe you can compromise & make a deal with him so that he can prove himself worthy of you & a good marriage in a shorter amount of time. Will it make it to your wedding date in October?

[justme]

Re: Being in love and cheating

hey everybody
i'm not an armenian , but i'm also a person like all of u r .. i'm currently goi through a lot of rough time and pain . i need u guys help . can u ppl please help me out wid ma prob ?

[justme]

Re: confused and hearth broken!

hey everybody
i'm not an armenian , but i'm also a person like all of u r .. i'm currently goi through a lot of rough time and pain . i need u guys help . can u ppl please help me out wid ma prob ?
my problem is there was this one guy whom i really trusted n loved him n he too said he loved me n stuff. n now he cheated on me n married someone else.
hes cheated me big time. initially when he proposed to me i did tell him dat i'm only looking for a life time commitiment and then he said he too was looking forward for that wid me . n only then did i accept his proposal and i totally gave myself to him . later he happened to get back to our country ( well we were in a different country for studying..n he happens to be frm my country itself) and he married a different girl . after all dat went along wid us he dint even bother to tell me about his marriage and i like an idiot kept waiting on him. well its been quite long now since i got to know the truth , but i'm not able to forget him at all. what do i do ? please somebody help me forget him .