Would you ever cheat on your spouse?

[Anonymouse]

Come on honest answers! No bullxxxx please.

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

Cheating is against the law of marriage. If you really love and respect the person next to you, then why to cheat?

[Anonymouse]

Well this isn't just about marriage.

Maybe I should have clarified it.

Overall, if you are "with someone", would you or not?

[clubbin714]

I do it all the time. What about you?

[Anonymouse]

I am not "with someone".

If I was, I would not do it as I like to think of myself as a man of ethics.

[sSsflamesSs]

Never.

If I had the urge to cheat, then that's a reason to break up. I would never cheat if I was "with someone".

[Anonymouse]

Clubbin would.

I think he would cheat on the girl with his workout routine.

[clubbin714]

What if you were just dating someone and you were not in a serious relationship?

[Anonymouse]

I don't know, these things are so elastic.

I guess if you feel you have no "bond" or "love" and it's just "dating" or some casual thing I think it would be okay if you go out with someone else.

At least I think so.

[sSsflamesSs]

Elastic they are.

If both parties agree that seeing other people is OK, then that's that.

But this brings up the issue of miscommunication. What if your perception of how devoted the other person is to the relationship is biased? What if you're wrong in what you think s/he thinks?

My fever's acting up. Anon, I'm SO weak.