Would you ever cheat on your spouse?

[Anonymouse]

as much as I agree with everything each one of you said about morals and ethic standards and so on and so forth, I'm gonna have to give props to clubbin cuz he told the truth...
you guys could deny it ALL you want...
dinng dinng
bad news
EVERYONE cheats...
it's the animal in a human being...
at some point in any relationship, people have those desires that have no connection whatsoever with their emotional selves... and it's hard to admit, but we all get those urges from time to time...
just think about what you've heard about people... think about all the cheaters you know about... starting from Bill Clinton, ending with your friend's boyfriend or girlfriend...
(Kobe's not the only celebrity that cheated, he's the only celebrity that got COUGHT cheating)
sorry to disappoint you guys.. just tryin to be real...
oh and just as a side note... I didn't say what I said cuz I've been cheated on lol... not yet, thank God...

Everyone doesn't cheat.

Most people do but not everyone.

That is an unsubstantiated assertion of you trying to make things cliche. Get over it. Some of us actually regard ourselves and pride ourselves on being able to look for higher ends then our animality.

[jahannam]

are you suggesting you're gonna get married and then you're gonna see some J.Lo ish ass, and you're not even gonna THINK about slapping it?
cuz I mean you'd be cheating even if you just IMAGINED yourself in bed with that hot thing...which is pretty common...
it's the thought that counts my friend...
yeah I know, now you're gonna tell me "i changed what I just said" and that thinking is not cheating...
still... how about this?
are you saying that you're not gonna touch ANY girl from the day you're "serious" with a girl until you die?
IMPOSSIBLE <<<<french accent
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[Anonymouse]

are you suggesting you're gonna get married and then you're gonna see some J.Lo ish ass, and you're not even gonna THINK about slapping it?
cuz I mean you'd be cheating even if you just IMAGINED yourself in bed with that hot thing...which is pretty common...
it's the thought that counts my friend...
yeah I know, now you're gonna tell me "i changed what I just said" and that thinking is not cheating...
still... how about this?
are you saying that you're not gonna touch ANY girl from the day you're "serious" with a girl until you die?
IMPOSSIBLE <<<<french accent
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Like I said.

You can see it, drool over it, imagine it, do whatever I don't care.

But once those thoughts turn into actions, then you are guilty.

I'm suggesting exactly that. I will be married and I will be with one person.

[jahannam]

good luck...
if you ask me... not happening...you can't...
and you'll remember my words while cheating one day !
hehe

[Anonymouse]

Nah sorry.

I'm above you.

I'm not going to constantly worry about who is cheating.

For me I have my truths and my ethics, and you have your animality.

Good luck.

And I won't remember xxxx from these forums. Maybe the tampon part. LOL.

[jahannam]

MY animality?
we're all animals mouseboy... remember?
and I can't believe you said something like I don't have ethics and truths...
the truth hurts..
I'm being real...
I didn't say I'm gonna cheat 100%
I wish I knew how it feels to be in a relationship...
I've never been in one...

[sSsflamesSs]

Jahannam, Anon is right. Not everyone cheats, and whereas the majority of us probably experience the urge to at some point or another, not all of us act on those urges. That's what separates humans from other animals.

Imagination does not constitute cheating! That's just bullxxxx. Our minds are the most private things we have, and the hardest things to control (our thoughts). But actions are another story. If you can't control your actions, than you're screwed (no pun intended).

[Aphrodit3]

I thought this is where we actually differ from animals; our capacity for moral judgement, emotions and such. Hmm...how disappointing.

I honestly don't care if most of society cheats. I won't cheat, no matter how socially acceptable it is. I never follow mainstream crap anyway...

[jahannam]

I just hope with all my heart you guys (who think cheaters are a minority) would never get cheated on...

[sSsflamesSs]

I just hope with all my heart you guys (who think cheaters are a minority) would never get cheated on...

Cheaters are not a minority. Non-cheaters DO exist.