Strong/Weak

[spiral]

I've had a tendency in the past to end up with weaker girls, ones that I ended up psychologically dominating after losing all respect for them. I did not, however, seek them out. The problem was that I didn't seek anyone out, and just settled for whoever sought me with the most ferocity. I would love to find someone strong, someone I don't intimidate, perhaps even someone who intimidates me a slight bit.

maybe it's all in your head. Maybe you didn't intimidate them at all.

Maybe you find comfort in/with that thought, as it feeds your ego.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by spiral maybe it's all in your head. Maybe you didn't intimidate them at all.

Maybe you find comfort in/with that thought, as it feeds your ego.

Speculate all you want. When a person tells me she feels intimidated by me, I generally assume she's telling the truth.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs So, in other words, you're a coward.

If you mean that I typically fail to take any initiative, sure. We're all cowards about something.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Aphrodit3 I'm so glad you joined this forum. It's given me a chance to see a side of you that I wouldn't see otherwise. I don't mean this as a compliment.

What the hell are you talking about? I've said nothing that you didn't already know.

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by loseyourname If you mean that I typically fail to take any initiative, sure. We're all cowards about something.

Uh, riiiiight.

Whatever works for you, pal.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs Uh, riiiiight.

Whatever works for you, pal.

If you're going to sit here and tell me that you have never once let your fear get the best of you and keep you from doing something that you wanted to do, then you are a liar. I would rather be a coward than a liar.

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by loseyourname If you're going to sit here and tell me that you have never once let your fear get the best of you and keep you from doing something that you wanted to do, then you are a liar. I would rather be a coward than a liar.

Maybe I should have been more specific. What I meant to say is that your excuse for never taking initiative was...how should I put this...LAME! I never said that I don't fear anything. But I doubt that I would ever be considered a coward, since when it matters, I don't let my fear get the best of me.

[loseyourname]

I never said I don't take any initiative. I said I often have trouble doing so, and have especially had trouble with it in the past. It might be a little harder for me than for some, but if you think that's going to stop me, you don't know me all that well.

[Aphrodit3]

Originally posted by loseyourname I never said I don't take any initiative. I said I often have trouble doing so, and have especially had trouble with it in the past. It might be a little harder for me than for some, but if you think that's going to stop me, you don't know me all that well.

She's right.
You never take the initiative.
And on top of that, you're controlled by your fears.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Aphrodit3 She's right.
You never take the initiative.
And on top of that, you're controlled by your fears.

This from someone who's known me for about six months.