Armenian lesbians/gays

[KanadaHye]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

I'm sorry... Did you just post this so you could make fun of their appearance? Am I understanding correctly? That's who you are now? Someone who posts photos of persons that they found online and posts it on a public forum making fun of how they look?

Or tries to make fun, I should say. I don't get the joke. It just makes you look shallow and petty.

Hmm... I get the joke, must be a honesty thing... or perhaps people are so worried about being politically correct that they are incapable of speaking the truth about what they see.

[KanadaHye]

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Last I checked women can clean toilets, empty trash cans, and pick fruit too.

Where are these statistics you're looking at? I work at a college and have to report this sh!t day in and day out (to the state, country, chancellor, and various campus programs/depts) and we're roughly equal between genders overall unless you're defining in the strictest sense and calling anything over 50% a majority. If you divide by disciplines, you might see it slant.

Well, in politics anything over 50% is majority

Trade school... tool and die, plumbing, pipe fitting, electrician, mechanic, mining, farming, forestry, etc. are all disciplines that women seldom enter through their own free will. Yes, there are some, but the trend still favors men.

There was a study done in 2010 regarding post secondary education in industrialized countries and it noted that more women are receiving degrees than men.

Here is one for the U.S.
More Working Women Than Men Have College Degrees, Census Bureau Reports
http://www.census.gov/newsroom/relea...n/cb11-72.html

[Siggie]

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The liberal "cultured" women in Armenia crack me up. Their views are often very naive and based on what ever Western propaganda they hear in Levon's media outlets or organisations like "Pink". They are usually ashamed of their culture and prefer the globalised culture of the West (which I wouldn't call a 'culture') Fortunately they are a small minority. And most look like the two in the photo (the two in the centre )

I'm sorry... Did you just post this so you could make fun of their appearance? Am I understanding correctly? That's who you are now? Someone who posts photos of persons that they found online and posts it on a public forum making fun of how they look?

Or tries to make fun, I should say. I don't get the joke. It just makes you look shallow and petty.

Why don't you instead tell us what these views are and why they're naive, no good, or whatever. That would be a more productive and mature discussion.

[Mos]

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The liberal "cultured" women in Armenia crack me up. Their views are often very naive and based on what ever Western propaganda they hear in Levon's media outlets or organisations like "Pink". They are usually ashamed of their culture and prefer the globalised culture of the West (which I wouldn't call a 'culture') Fortunately they are a small minority. And most look like the two in the photo (the two in the centre )

[Siggie]

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It's more even at my college, but I'll help you out... Here's Glendale Community College where there's a massive Armenian student population.

It got to 60% female and now it's swinging back... Sooooo disproportionate.

http://research.glendale.edu/html/campusprofile/cre-03-fal.html

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Hey y'all need to lay off bashing my buddy Kanada here ... EVERY good multi-page discussion needs the completely unwavering and absurd point of view to keep it going But as far as insulting, I wouldn't take any insults kanada throws out too personally.

I mean where else are you going to get amazing facts like "Statistically, if you look at education levels, you'll see that women outnumber men in post secondary education." (I know you mean Armena but it it would help to clarify that )... perhaps from the same line of reasoning that brought us the famous "Ancient greeks and romans were far more advanced than us"

this post = teh win.

[Siggie]

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No man, those are real world figures. There are more women getting degrees than men since men can work jobs that require labour without education. Makes sense if you think about it.

Last I checked women can clean toilets, empty trash cans, and pick fruit too.

Where are these statistics you're looking at? I work at a college and have to report this sh!t day in and day out (to the state, country, chancellor, and various campus programs/depts) and we're roughly equal between genders overall unless you're defining in the strictest sense and calling anything over 50% a majority. If you divide by disciplines, you might see it slant.

[KanadaHye]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

Hey y'all need to lay off bashing my buddy Kanada here ... EVERY good multi-page discussion needs the completely unwavering and absurd point of view to keep it going But as far as insulting, I wouldn't take any insults kanada throws out too personally.

I mean where else are you going to get amazing facts like "Statistically, if you look at education levels, you'll see that women outnumber men in post secondary education." (I know you mean Armena but it it would help to clarify that )... perhaps from the same line of reasoning that brought us the famous "Ancient greeks and romans were far more advanced than us"

No man, those are real world figures. There are more women getting degrees than men since men can work jobs that require labour without education. Makes sense if you think about it.

[Sip]

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Hey y'all need to lay off bashing my buddy Kanada here ... EVERY good multi-page discussion needs the completely unwavering and absurd point of view to keep it going But as far as insulting, I wouldn't take any insults kanada throws out too personally.

I mean where else are you going to get amazing facts like "Statistically, if you look at education levels, you'll see that women outnumber men in post secondary education." (I know you mean Armena but it it would help to clarify that )... perhaps from the same line of reasoning that brought us the famous "Ancient greeks and romans were far more advanced than us"

[Siggie]

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Now we're talking! There is just as much pressure on men to fit into pre-ordained lifestyles, and men perceive that they are valued by their families based upon how much money they earn. Therefore, they may not pursue higher education beyond what they need in order to make enough money to establish themselves as legitimate earners, as "real" men. And women, who don't have that kind of pressure, do go and acquire higher education. But then you end up with this terrible large-scale mismatch. You end up with men who don't have the level of education of the women, and who, as a result, have not had the opportunity to question the beliefs they inherited from their families. Meanwhile that is what happens in 4 year liberal art colleges, and in graduate programs in things other than math, some hard sciences, engineering, etc. If a man hasn't bothered to immerse himself into literature and the humanities, he will have very little in common with a woman who has a degree in political science, or art history, or history, or psychology, or comparative literature. It's a shame, really.

I know many Armenian women who are educated, self-sufficient, independent and who would like to meet Armenian men with whom to make a life. What happens is that, after dating several, they realize they have two choices. Either stay single forever or marry out. Men, by a similar token, end up either marrying women younger than themselves, or women who come from the "old country", or women who are not Armenian. There is still this crazy deluded notion in circulation that, with enough money a man can have any woman he wants.

Armenian men are just as much victims of the system as women are. It's like the tea party folks: They are fighting to the death for causes that are contrary to their own best interest.

Stressing the bolded. Seen this in my experience too.

[Siggie]

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Well, I don't get where Armenian women get off by saying that the men hold them back... in most cases Armenian fathers end up paying for an education for their daughters while the sons pay their own way or go straight to work after high school. At least that's the way I see it in the diaspora. Then the daughters complain about how the Armenian men are uneducated so they end up with odars. Seems like a catch 22 doesn't it.

Interesting. Let me tell you a Diasporan tale of a brother and sister.

The sister started working at age 16 and worked her way through college, graduate school, and more graduate school. She left, was unemployed about 7 months and then found a job and is presently employed. She got no kind of allowance after becoming employed at 16 and paid for much of her personal needs (clothing, gas, car payment, car insurance, entertainment, etc.) and the parents (not father, it's BOTH parents' money) paid tuition when there wasn't a scholarship or grant to fund the education.

The brother didn't work until much later, maybe about age 20. He worked for about 6 months and then left that job. A year or so later, he got another job which he kept for almost a year. When he got laid off from that job, he decided it was too much to do both and he'd focus on finally graduating. He graduated nearly 3 years ago and is still unemployed. Part of that because he decided to supplement his coursework with some additional training at a local college. The parents gave him an allowance, paid for his gas, insurance, car, etc. and the money he earned he spent on his personal purchases (e.g. clothing, entertainment, electronics, etc.). The parents paid his tuition.

Other Diaspora families I've seen give their children the same opportunities as well. What they do for one child, they do for all.
If anything, I see some devaluing of education for the female children because they don't think the women need it (they don't need to be competitive in the job market when they're going to get married and raise children at home instead, right?). This, at least among Armenians I interact with, isn't so much that they won't pay for the daughters' educations if she desires to go, but instead that it's not encouraged to the same degree.