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  • #31
    For mother in laws, i tell my parents.. (my mom actually lol ) that "mom, i am always gonna take my wife's side, im never gonna put her down infront of you and dad, and i hop eyou guys understand.. i need to live a "as calm as possible" life.. so when im married please BUTT OUT of my daily issues and dont judge... that is the start of unconcious dislike towards the person (being the wife in my case) etc... so im preparing my mom for this.. LOL.. she only said (Che Gevo jan, yes gorts chunem, du amosnatsi ko hamar apri.. " im like. yeah right.. BS!! i see how it is with my sister.. lol.. im ean its not bad.. but still.. i guess mikichnel harsits a kapvats yev pesayits.
    How do you hurt a masochist?
    -By leaving him alone.Forever.

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    • #32
      Well I knew she was a nosey witch before I got married, but did not realize she wanted to control every aspect of my life. Yes, it is unfortunate that us Armenians have to go through this with our in-laws. And yes, I agree that this is the most popular subject in Armenians. But maybe in-laws should mind their own business. In my case, she has nothing better to do. I guess I would be the same way if I was at home all day doing nothing but thinking up evil stuff.

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      • #33
        Originally posted by starr71k
        Well I knew she was a nosey witch before I got married, but did not realize she wanted to control every aspect of my life. Yes, it is unfortunate that us Armenians have to go through this with our in-laws. And yes, I agree that this is the most popular subject in Armenians. But maybe in-laws should mind their own business. In my case, she has nothing better to do. I guess I would be the same way if I was at home all day doing nothing but thinking up evil stuff.
        HAHA Takouhi jan what your sayign sounds all to familiar.. lol.. my sister has that problem with her in laws... ehhh.. i am mean to them though.. they are afraid of me.. lol.. bayts the best thing to do seriously though is to always stay sweet with your husband and just plainly ignore the mother in law.. as hard as it is.. i swear to you it is the only chance arguing with them or even talking with them about it will not help.. iv seen it.. good luck to yoU!
        How do you hurt a masochist?
        -By leaving him alone.Forever.

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        • #34
          Originally posted by gevo
          thats exactly my point. .i would like nothing better than to have evberyone see that a ligical human being is "such and such" and a non-logical human being is whatever.. but the point is.. no such comparison can exist today anymore in any type of debate.. logical human beings range form serial killers to presidents these days.. and everything in bewtween with fairl yet weak similaritites bewtween them... so thx for making my point
          That still doesn't mean there isn't one fixed definition for "logical".

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          • #35
            Originally posted by Darorinag
            That still doesn't mean there isn't one fixed definition for "logical".
            The point is.. for me "THIS" is logical,, but its not logical to the next human being, who is also a logical person... seee its becoming relative..
            How do you hurt a masochist?
            -By leaving him alone.Forever.

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            • #36
              Originally posted by gevo
              The point is.. for me "THIS" is logical,, but its not logical to the next human being, who is also a logical person... seee its becoming relative..
              Well, that's perception. It's not necessarily TRUTH per se. That's what I'm trying to say. Just because different people have different opinions about something doesn't mean there is no fixed answer TRUE or FALSE. Anyhow...

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              • #37
                Mother-in-Laws of some peoples tend be a little more "involved".

                Why not just tell her in the nicest way possible to back off? Better to be honest than miserable.
                [COLOR=#4b0082][B][SIZE=4][FONT=trebuchet ms]“If you think you can, or you can’t, you’re right.”
                -Henry Ford[/FONT][/SIZE][/B][/COLOR]

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                • #38
                  Originally posted by gevo
                  The point is.. for me "THIS" is logical,, but its not logical to the next human being, who is also a logical person... seee its becoming relative..
                  Logic is not relative at all. You guys are not using that word properly. I think "rational" is more correct. Logic is based on indesputable facts being used in arguments to come to an indisputable solution. Like the way they thought you logic in algebra. If we don't agree on the facts, then there is no logic.

                  Now if everyone was being rational, and making different predicitions based on their belief/experience/research/whatever on the other hand we can disagree.

                  More on the subject. In-laws can be both irrational and illogical. You've married their baby. Love is not rational.
                  Last edited by patlajan; 06-08-2004, 09:08 AM.

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                  • #39
                    Originally posted by Siggie
                    Mother-in-Laws of some peoples tend be a little more "involved".

                    Why not just tell her in the nicest way possible to back off? Better to be honest than miserable.
                    HAHA you can add a cherry on top and give them a million dollar house with their choice of cars.. and still tey will gossip and ponder and eventually say something or retaliate in ome way.. .. most anyways .. not all.. i hope.. LOL
                    How do you hurt a masochist?
                    -By leaving him alone.Forever.

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                    • #40
                      Originally posted by gevo
                      HAHA you can add a cherry on top and give them a million dollar house with their choice of cars.. and still tey will gossip and ponder and eventually say something or retaliate in ome way.. .. most anyways .. not all.. i hope.. LOL
                      I didn't say not to gossip or ponder... just to keep it to themselves.
                      My life is mine is mine to live and my children are mine to raise. They could gossip til they were blue in the face. As long as I dont have to hear it, it's fine.
                      [COLOR=#4b0082][B][SIZE=4][FONT=trebuchet ms]“If you think you can, or you can’t, you’re right.”
                      -Henry Ford[/FONT][/SIZE][/B][/COLOR]

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