Mistakes Mistakes Mistakes!!!

[GreekGirl]

What are the most serious mistakes you have ever done in your life?

What problems they caused to your life ? Did you ever do again the same mistakes?

[GreekGirl]

Ut Oh Why me first?
Well one of my biggest mistakes is that i fall in love with a guy from net and i had a relation with him for 2 years almost.He 's armenian and i felt so close to him from the 1st minute that we met.We never met each other in real but we were spending many many hours together every day on net and on phone.He is a great guy and if i could be with him in real i would do it,i would even marry him.....but im already married and maybe u think this cant be but i love both of them.This situation couldnt go on more,me living 2 lives and him being alone always and wait when i can be online for to be together,so we broke up a few months ago.I couldnt handle more the fact that im not caring my kids as i must and that im not sharing each precious moment with them and with my family.We both got so sad and depressed but I think that this was the best decision that we could ever take.The best decision for our future.As much as we cant be together forever then better to be away ,thats how i thought, cuz the hurt and the pain was becomign more and more for both of us.He must live his life in normal way and not to be on net all the day waiting for me,and i must live with my husband and my kids and enjoy every single second with them.Well now if i have regret it ...i dunno...yes and no....Yes because with this relation i ruined 2 years of his life and i also lost sharing moments with my kids and family in these 2 years. No, because he's a real Man and a great guy and he gave me nice memories and good advices for all my life.I wish i had take the decision to break this relation earlier so that we would have avoid some serious fights in between us that most were coming from missing each other,from jealous and from the missing of the real touch.Now that he will read this propably he will get mad and angry with me ,as he is these last few months but i want to tell him that I Love Him Always and Forever and I am Sorry for the pain and the tears i gave him.I hurt and pain a lot also He may now not understand me 100% but i hope that when he will become a father he will understand me.This is my story ahhh phewww i said it all and i feel better now.Σ'αγαπω για παντα!

[Anonymouse]

What are the most serious mistakes you have ever done in your life?

What problems they caused to your life ? Did you ever do again the same mistakes?

Eating sushi.

It caused puking and horrible mental trauma.

No, I never did it again.

[Lamb Boy]

He may now not understand me 100%

Either do I!! j/k I actually did understand I'm just being a jerk as usual!

Do you not enjoy the company of your current husband? I'm sorry if you don't. I can only imagine how bad that would suck. Still I think spending time with your kids is definitely the way to go imho It'll probably be difficult just quitting talking to him or being online as you've probably have grown accustomed to the routine so it'll take doing some other activities to work it all out.

By the way welcome to the forums, unless you were banned and came back in which case I'll say, welcome back to the forums! heheh

You don't like Sushi Anon? I just had it last night and it was yummy! I understand why you wouldn't especially if you got some food poisoning. That would make me stop eating it whatever poisoned me for like a couple months. Do you like smoked salmon on a cream cheesed bagel? If so there might be hope for you yet!

Okay my big dark secret, or circumstance that I failed miserably at and gave up. Hmmmmmm

**Scratches head**

I'm sort of, unfortunately as I always seem to be, in the middle of such a circumstance right now, although I'll hold off on talking about it until it comes to some sort of conclusion.

I guess I have one ...

Went back to school
Amassed a massive student loan debt
Currently not really utilizing my degree ...

That hurts like I just got the crap knocked out of me!

Thanks for the thread Greek girl!! hehehe

[Thai-Samurai]

Remind me to not date Greeks. Unless she's going to be exceptionally hot and it'll outweigh any hurt feelings I could get.

Mistakes? I have no idea.

[ddd]

Mistakes? Trying to decipher what you wrote..

[GreekGirl]

1st I enjoy the company of my husband and I love him thats why i said i dunno how this happened to me and i fall in love with another guy and specially from net without to meet him to date him ,without to have a real kiss a real touch from him.

2nd (about Thai-Samourai) You dont want to hear about how many armenian wives r cheating on their husbands and not just on net but in real way also with real meetings,real touches,real ......! So i dont think that its fair from you to say that u won't date a greek girl.
3rd Thanks for my welcome i really need itand no i never been banned its my 1st time in here.

4rd Comon girls and guys dont pretend the innocent .We all have made mistakes so dont be shy and shareeeeeeeee......

[GreekGirl]

Thank you Lamb Boy for ur advise and for understanding. I appreciate when people are trying to understand even tho if they havent been in a same situation and believe me this needs to be mature to have good heart and smart mind.Oufff too many compliments i gave u ,dont forget my 50 euros in the envelope...lol

[Lamb Boy]

Oufff too many compliments i gave u ,dont forget my 50 euros in the envelope...lol

That's funny Ggirl! Next time it'll cost 100 Euros! Inflation and all, AND ... well to be honest my opinion is totally worth it! LOL Ahhhh that's funny. Soo not true!

[Siamanto]

GreekGirl,
Just curious, was he aware of your situation i.e. that you were living - I am assuming - with your husband and children.
Also, what makes you think that he may read this thread? Do you want him to read this thread? Is this supposed a message?

Welcome to the forum.