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  • Stereotypes -- What would you do?

    I can't remember what I was watching a few days ago when I saw a "coming up" commercial about Primetime I think it was...
    Anyway, they had a bunch of hidden camera situations set up. One was a follow-up to what they had done before with a couple fighting and the male getting a bit abusive to the female. They had used a white couple and wanted to see what would happen with a black couple. Nothing too interesting there.

    Different scenario - A group of boys (3-4 of them) are bullying another kid at the park. They're throwing his stuff (water bottle, books, backpack) around and teasing him. They noticed that not many people did anything.

    When they had the kids dress up in gang affiliated colors and clothing. Whether they actually did this successfully is debateable. They were wearing red and black mostly and I think one kid was wearing blue, but their pants were baggier and at least one kid had the hood on his sweatshirt up. People were more quick to get involved whereas they had thought they'd be less likely to because of perceived risk to themselves.

    Finally, the topic of the poll and the most interesting one IMO.
    They had a camera and mic hidden in a cab and had the cab drivers make racist remarks and wanted to see what people would do. A few people made comments themselves. Most just avoided talking about it, but didn't disagree. A few said, I work with some [blank]s and they're good people or something to that effect.

    My big problem with their "study" is that they're trying to generalize to how people respond to strangers who make racist comments, but they're not doing that. They have people in a CAB. If this person is saying somethign like "I'm sick of arabs... we should send everyone with brown skin back to where they came from" are you going to argue when they're in a position of control? What are your options if this person is insane and flips out if you disagree or call them on their crap? Are you gonna jump out of a moving car?
    So, I'm thinking that people are going to be way more likely to shut up and not say anything in this particular situation because they're vulnerable. It's not a good way to get at the general topic of what people do when a stranger starts talking like that.

    Sorry, this got so long, but what do you think? Do you think that's probably why most people didn't say anything of was it somethign else?
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    I would most likely speak up and tell them they are wrong.
    0.00%
    0
    I would join in and agree with them.
    50.00%
    3
    I would keep quiet and maybe try to change the subject.
    33.33%
    2
    I would do something else (please post what that would be).
    16.67%
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    Re: Stereotypes -- What would you do?

    I voted I would keep quiet and maybe try to change the subject.

    I was honest, and didn't lie about how I'd speak up. Honestly, I'm never the type to speak up and say something. I often hold it in. Whatever that might be. If somebody said something, I'd just think, "What a racist." - then say something to change the conversation up.

    Also, this specific situation is racist. I think a lot of people are racists. They probably don't even know it. I'll be honest, I'm racist at times, too. It's just how it is, a lot of people are. But not to the point where I say something to hurt them, or do something about it. I won't use racial slurs, or if I was hiring for a position, I wouldn't single someone out because of their race.

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    • #3
      Re: Stereotypes -- What would you do?

      Originally posted by One-Way
      I voted I would keep quiet and maybe try to change the subject.

      I was honest, and didn't lie about how I'd speak up. Honestly, I'm never the type to speak up and say something. I often hold it in. Whatever that might be. If somebody said something, I'd just think, "What a racist." - then say something to change the conversation up.

      Also, this specific situation is racist. I think a lot of people are racists. They probably don't even know it. I'll be honest, I'm racist at times, too. It's just how it is, a lot of people are. But not to the point where I say something to hurt them, or do something about it. I won't use racial slurs, or if I was hiring for a position, I wouldn't single someone out because of their race.

      I watched it and I also found the cab thing strange. I didn't think about the control angle, which is certainly true. To me more than anything though it would be ridiculous to engage in an ethical argument with a stranger, who on top of that is an ignorant redneck idiot. I like to chat with strangers but only if it's pleasant and fun.

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      • #4
        Re: Stereotypes -- What would you do?

        I was LMAO at the 2 old joowish ladies
        this post = teh win.

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        • #5
          Re: Stereotypes -- What would you do?

          I voted, I would join in and agree with them.

          Furthermore, what's wrong with making racist comments?
          Achkerov kute.

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          • #6
            Re: Stereotypes -- What would you do?

            Originally posted by Sip
            I was LMAO at the 2 old joowish ladies
            LOl, yeah they were funny, ignorant as hell but funny. That's the first time I heard the joke about Asians, where they can't see right or left and are horrible drivers because of that. Funny coincidence was later that night when "Drawn Together" on Adult Swim had a hillarious episode about fixing the Asians' eyes so they can drive better.

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            • #7
              Re: Stereotypes -- What would you do?

              Originally posted by Anonymouse
              I voted, I would join in and agree with them.

              Furthermore, what's wrong with making racist comments?
              They're racist.

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              • #8
                Re: Stereotypes -- What would you do?

                I voted for the fourth option. I'd do something else.

                As much as this would bother someone like Siggie, I'd just say "Okay."

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                • #9
                  Re: Stereotypes -- What would you do?

                  I joke around with racist comments with my friends, but that's all. It's just joking around and playing around.

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                  • #10
                    Re: Stereotypes -- What would you do?

                    ... Phew. Man, y'all needta....

                    Anyway...

                    Originally posted by Sip
                    I was LMAO at the 2 old joowish ladies
                    I found their (the xxxish ladies) comments a little "ironic." One would think... but yet, no. LOL

                    Reminds me of something Anonymouse said... but I differ from him in that I think either people experience horror and support the same, OR they might experience and FIGHT to try to prevent anyone from ever knowing that experience... I guess those taxi women fall into the first category.

                    For me, if I am confronted with racism (etc.)... my first step is to try to understand WHY this person thinks this way. Second, merge understanding and compassion into their view... from there...

                    Confrontation doesn't change minds. It might give the giver an ego boost, but does nothing for the 'listener' (other than reinforce their bigotry.)...

                    Fight hate with love, I think.
                    Last edited by Anahita; 03-27-2006, 10:18 PM.

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