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    I just want to know why the more you try to move forward in life the more obstacles you face, which only hinders you from attaining your goals. :?

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    gorsenvadz,

    Just like to let you know that you are not alone. I have this feeling attacking me quite often too. Once in a while we will face obstacles and problems that seem impossible to tackle, situations that are hard to resolve, personal affair that are too complicated to handle. But hang on there my friend, for there is always light at the end of this long and lonely tunnel, for there is always sunshine after the scary darkness, for there is always sweetness after bitterness, and also for the sake of your family and friends, just hang on there!

    I believe an intelligent and persistent person like you will eventually succeed in whatever you want to achieve. And I also believe that you are taking a very smart approach to express your feeling. All the best from me!

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    • #3
      thanks clubber, but i don't know. all i have to say is thank goodness im an excellent swimmer or else i would have drowned by now. I guess im just treading water for the time being. but this is getting ridiculous its like one thing after another so ive ended up w/ a pile of problems w/ no solutions..... uuggh

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      • #4
        http://www.armenianclub.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=535&start=0

        Specifically, look at my 2nd post on there.

        My motto...

        "If it breaks, you can always fix it."

        ...meaning...

        xxxx happens...that's how life is, but there is virtually nothing in this life (except death, of course, or the punishment of death for prisoners, or premature death, blah blah blah, you get the point), that can't be fixed after it happens. So I believe that, if you screw up, you can always make it better somehow. That's how I live from day to day - with that thought.
        In this case, you're not really screwing up, but obstacles/mistakes...same nature.

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          Specifically, look at my 2nd post on there.

          My motto...

          "If it breaks, you can always fix it."

          ...meaning...

          xxxx happens...that's how life is, but there is virtually nothing in this life (except death, of course, or the punishment of death for prisoners, or premature death, blah blah blah, you get the point), that can't be fixed after it happens. So I believe that, if you screw up, you can always make it better somehow. That's how I live from day to day - with that thought.
          In this case, you're not really screwing up, but obstacles/mistakes...same nature.

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          • #6
            my 2p

            gorsenvadz,

            I believe it can help recognising that there are some things in life you can affect and others which are just luck of the draw.

            Much of being human is about making mistakes, it is inherently part of what we are..
            Life's hard it's harder when you stupid - [John Wayne].
            I don't think your especially stupid.. I expect your just having a run of bad luck.. keep plugging away and chances are you'll have a run of good luck also.

            Looking back you'll probably also understand the causes better, and how many of the problems might have been unavoidable.

            Good luck
            davidpbrown

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            • #7
              Speaking of obstacles, my lovely car brakes decided to quit on me. :x

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              • #8
                o noooo...not urs too. geezzzz whas wrong w/ this fourm & having bad luck w/ cars? do u know whats wrong w/ it?
                im sawwy :?

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                • #9
                  You move forward, but always look back, face the obstacles of moving forward, remember the obstacles you faced when you look back, to make yourself feel xxxxty right there and then.

                  I really don't know anything anymore...
                  Achkerov kute.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by gorsenvadz
                    o noooo...not urs too. geezzzz whas wrong w/ this fourm & having bad luck w/ cars? do u know whats wrong w/ it?
                    im sawwy :?
                    Aww thanks, Gorsy. I felt it just in time. If I had gone on, I probably wouldn't be writing this. They towed the car to my house...the guy said that my brakes were completely gone. I was pissed off at the time, but DAMN, I got lucky.

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