Sex before marriage

[Artsakhtsi]

Hi people!

I wonder if u already have discussed this topic! I'm realy curious what u people think about it, it's kind of popular subject here ....
For example arevamothyer e they ussualy do not accept such a thing, same with hayastantsi.... but parskahyer e .... are more openmined ( the ones i know).
So tell me, what do u think, and what does people around u think?!

Thanks 8)



p.s. question to guys - which one do u prefer virgin or not ?

[TJ]

i myself definately prefer virgins, for reasons that it wouldn't be civil to talk about now

[Artsakhtsi]

i myself definately prefer virgins, for reasons that it wouldn't be civil to talk about now

What kind of reasons? .... i'm even more curious now

[violette829]

The only way that I would accept a man only wanting virgins is if he was a virgin himself. You are such a hypocrit if u want ur future wife to be a virgin when u've probably slept with 100 women. I, myself, would rather have the man I'm going to be with forever to be my first, but that's a "dream". These days, men are even turned off by the fact that a girl could be "uhhum 22" and still a virgin. It's like something's wrong with us. LOL They don't know that we don't like to spread our legs for ever Tom, xxxx and Harout that happens to come along. In conclusion, you should only want a virgin, if u are one urself. However, I don't think I can fight these urges for much longer. I'm like Blanche from Golden Girls. OOOOOOH LA LA ops: :shock:

[Artsakhtsi]

The only way that I would accept a man only wanting virgins is if he was a virgin himself. You are such a hypocrit if u want ur future wife to be a virgin when u've probably slept with 100 women. I, myself, would rather have the man I'm going to be with forever to be my first, but that's a "dream". These days, men are even turned off by the fact that a girl could be "uhhum 22" and still a virgin. It's like something's wrong with us. LOL They don't know that we don't like to spread our legs for ever Tom, xxxx and Harout that happens to come along. In conclusion, you should only want a virgin, if u are one urself. However, I don't think I can fight these urges for much longer. I'm like Blanche from Golden Girls. OOOOOOH LA LA ops: :shock:

Thanx for answering me,

I agree.... how can u not accept non-virgin, if u self have been with 100 women....
(Live story)
He-26
She-20
He- had sex in 13 years of his live..... his ½ life
She- had sex with 1
He blames her for that, tellin that, it's a terrible thing to do...it's a shame :?
(the both are armenians)

8)

[ckBejug]

I, myself, would rather have the man I'm going to be with forever to be my first.

Agreed!


However, I don't really care if the guy isn't a virgin (as long as he wasn't a one-night stand loving man-xxxxx), I would be VERY suprised if he was a virgin because even among guys who aren't skirt chasers and have slept with lots of women, I know most guys have slept with one or maybe two girls when they were together, etc. I know it happens and so I am ok with it.

[ckBejug]

One question:

Does virgin=

Someone who has had NO sexual experience whatsoever (basically, only ever kissed someone on the mouth...).

OR

Someone who hasn't had intercourse.

[Artsakhtsi]

One question:

Does virgin=

Someone who has had NO sexual experience whatsoever (basically, only ever kissed someone on the mouth...).

OR

Someone who hasn't had intercourse.

hi,

what i ment was ., the one who has had no sexual ACT whatsoeve= f--c
8)

[Anonymouse]

I would prefer a virgin, but then again in this day and age it's fallacy.

These days everyone sleeps around whether out of love or soulless sex, it doesn't matter, and they turn around and lie to their new boyfriends that they are 'virgins'. It's all too common. Some girls are 'born again virgins' and some even have sex, yet in their sick demented mind some how convince themselves that they are still virgins and tell their next boyfriend that they are virgins. After all the lack of virgins these days goes hand in hand with the high divorce rate, and reflects the overall promiscious cultural lifestyle espoused by Hollywood movies, music and trendy pop culture.

So I don't care anymore I just wanna xxxx.

[omniscient]

hey Artsakhtsi,
i don't know what your stand on this subject was but you have to have sex before marriage. the physical part of a relationship is a huge factor.
if a couple gets married before having sex that could be trouble. because you dont know how the two of you will connect on the physical level. the chemistry might not be there. and i know a few marriages that just havent gone well at all because of the lack of "love making" or performing sexual acts, whatever you wanna call it. theres a lot of other reasons but i dont like typing essays on this thing like some people do religiously.

p.s. even though i've been a bad boy :twisted: , i would be ok with my future wife not being a virgin, even though i prefer virgin. but thats rare with girls nowadays too. as long as she hasnt been with too many guys then i wouldnt see a problem