Sex before marriage

[Artsakhtsi]

Originally posted by anileve
Seriously why do men have a hard time admitting that they are attached? Why are they so easy to bend, what is it that goes through their mind? I love the one that goes: “Let’s get together for lunch and I’ll tell you how miserable my married life is.” Or the one where you mention their wife and they brush off the topic. What goes through a man’s mind when he is on the verge of cheating?

Not all man cheat... u might find one some day - if u get lucky

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by anileve
Seriously why do men have a hard time admitting that they are attached? Why are they so easy to bend, what is it that goes through their mind? I love the one that goes: “Let’s get together for lunch and I’ll tell you how miserable my married life is.” Or the one where you mention their wife and they brush off the topic. What goes through a man’s mind when he is on the verge of cheating?

A poor soul who has found someone that does not understand him is the answer.

Of course the same could be said of women.

What goes through the minds of those who are on the verge of being unfaithful?

I believe that it is truly rare that we find someone who understands us for us, to paraphrase the moral of what my mom taught me from her younger days at school upon hearing another student's essay.. "Happiness is to be understood".

Do not give me that whole "opposites attract" bullxxxx either, that's just sexual lust.

[jahannam]

Originally posted by anileve
I love the one that goes: “Let’s get together for lunch and I’ll tell you how miserable my married life is.”

I've heard you say that before!
do me a favor!
STOP seducing married men...
lol
I thought you don't like experienced men anyway... since they're not "easy to teach"...
you sound like you've been there done EVERYTHING...
just what in the world are you doing in a thread about virgins?

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by Anonymouse
A poor soul who has found someone that does not understand him is the answer.

Of course the same could be said of women.

What goes through the minds of those who are on the verge of being unfaithful?

I believe that it is truly rare that we find someone who understands us for us, to paraphrase the moral of what my mom taught me from her younger days at school upon hearing another student's essay.. "Happiness is to be understood".

Do not give me that whole "opposites attract" bullxxxx either, that's just sexual lust.

Here's a good question that fits in here in the cheaters topic. After going out with a guy for 2 years (on and off) and being none the wiser I found out through the randomest coincidence that he HAD a girlfriend. He dated me and slept with her. Haha, errrr, grr. So in that case what the hell was I to do??? I wasn't cheating on anyone, but I was quite without my knowing chosen to be the 'other woman' yech.

Sometimes I wonder what goes on through the minds of the cheaters, but not the one who is cheating on his/her significant other. The one who is not attached and has decided to become the other person. Does that make sense? Like if (and this would never happen) I had been ok dating this guy who was practically engaged, what the hell would have been going on in my head.

Maybe we need perspective from someone who's done this. Cheated. Maybe there is more to it that what I can see to be an awful betrayal just for physical gratification.

[anileve]

Ck being the other woman, admittedly can be fun only if you do not know his partner, since you control the entire relationship and no commitments are involved. However, it get tiring and after a while you realize how pathetic the situation is and how pathetic he is and you just don’t want to be a part of it. Women and men cheat, however more men (as I have said before) have a problem admitting to women they find attractive that they are attached. Women as long as they are in love or love someone don’t hesitate much to announce their availability.

[pheral]

that sucks, but your gonna find players all over, in different categories, sadly theres no guarantee.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by pheral that sucks, but your gonna find players all over, in different categories, sadly theres no guarantee.

YOU AGAIN???! Please capitalize the first letter in every sentence.

[fstkhnan]

I dont know! does it ever happen to any of u, where u dont like a guy and he likes u a lot, and once u start liking him, he just ignores the hell out of u , and doesnt like u anymore, or pretends that he doesnt like u !!!!isnt that annoying??? I want a guy to explain to me the secret that lies behind this!!!!

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by fstkhnan I dont know! does it ever happen to any of u, where u dont like a guy and he likes u a lot, and once u start liking him, he just ignores the hell out of u , and doesnt like u anymore, or pretends that he doesnt like u !!!!isnt that annoying??? I want a guy to explain to me the secret that lies behind this!!!!

That's funny, all this time I thought you were a guy you know. Well, you know, with you sporting that jeep, and all those grammatical errors, I didn't know what to think.

But glad to see youre not a sausage, just a tom boy.

[fstkhnan]

Originally posted by Anonymouse That's funny, all this time I thought you were a guy you know. Well, you know, with you sporting that jeep, and all those grammatical errors, I didn't know what to think.

But glad to see youre not a sausage, just a tom boy.

grammatical errors? hahahaha....... I'm not boring like other girls, who have angels next to their names...