Sex before marriage

[Nimrod]

Re: Sex before marriage

Originally posted by Artsakhtsi Hi people!

I wonder if u already have discussed this topic! I'm realy curious what u people think about it, it's kind of popular subject here ....
For example arevamothyer e they ussualy do not accept such a thing, same with hayastantsi.... but parskahyer e .... are more openmined ( the ones i know).
So tell me, what do u think, and what does people around u think?!

Thanks 8)



p.s. question to guys - which one do u prefer virgin or not ?

Actually, there is a lot more non-virgin "parskahye" females that have lost it to fellow Hispanics or Blacks in the area than anyone else. Therefore, "parskahyes" do not necessarily forbid it.

[Nimrod]

Originally posted by Sirumemkez20 In my oppnion you guys I am going to wait till marriage some of you might think it's prude and all, but I wouldn't feel comfortable doing something like that untill I was married maybe because im shy and all...

Well yes it is a lot more safe and a lot more reliably comforting to do it that way. Most of the people who lustfully went around decoding it with "but I loved him at the time and I do not regret it" usually are qualified to be branded as mentally disabled nymphomaniacs.

[Nimrod]

Originally posted by Sirumemkez20 In my oppnion you guys I am going to wait till marriage some of you might think it's prude and all, but I wouldn't feel comfortable doing something like that untill I was married maybe because im shy and all...

Well yes it is a lot more safe and a lot more reliably comforting to do it that way because you are at least pledging your commitment thus making it more important. Most of the people who lustfully went around decoding it with "but I loved him at the time and I do not regret it" usually are qualified to be branded as mentally disabled nymphomaniacs.

[felizitation]

I prefer non virgin (but of course, for the marriage we never know)

This question is just a social way to justify the choice one man has made concerning a woman.
"She can cook, she never speaks, she's virgin, etc.". This time is over though in our societies.
It should be also strongly related to religion, to avoid separating after mariage etc...

Actually my first (sexual) girlfriend was virgin, so was I. She had no experience, I had no experience. She was lying on the bed like a meat loaf, I was agitating on her top.
This lack of experience + the fair of hurting her made that we didn't do anything at all. Worse, we both completely get frustrated and we broke quickly.

I do not understand guys who want virgin. What are they proud of if they take the virginity of a girl ? Do they think they have teached something ? Do they feel stronger ? Do it flatter their virility ?

Personally speaking, I don't want to be a teacher. I'd prefer a girl who knows how to bring me pleasures, with fantasy and imagination.

So, take pleasures now. It will be better for the one you really love.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Nimrod Most of the people who lustfully went around decoding it with "but I loved him at the time and I do not regret it" usually are qualified to be branded as mentally disabled nymphomaniacs.

That's an awfully bold statement, my friend. Go pick up a copy of DSM-IV and look up Nymphomania. It will describe someone far different than a girl who remains monogamous at all times and only sleeps with men she is in love with, regardless of whether or not there exists any legal bond between them.

[tortoise26]

what is really hilarious to me is that most of these "virgin" girls that you guys are dreaming of marrying (and I assume "saving" yourselves for) have taken it up the ass so many times and given so many blow jobs/hand jobs all for the sake of maintaining their "virgin" titles for "nimrods" like you.

[loseyourname]

Beautifully put, tortoise. You get the forum subtlety award.

[felizitation]

Originally posted by tortoise26 what is really hilarious to me is that most of these "virgin" girls that you guys are dreaming of marrying (and I assume "saving" yourselves for) have taken it up the ass so many times and given so many blow jobs/hand jobs all for the sake of maintaining their "virgin" titles for "nimrods" like you.

HAHAHAHA, very shrewd

[armflower]

Sex before marrige? hmm...no...

I think that there has to be only a one man in the life of any armenian lady...and that man has to become her husband...i don't approve sex before marriage with different men..i think it's xxxutiun...it is so wonderfull to realize that you belong only to one man, that he is the first in your life and the last one...that you didn't sleep with a lot of men and then found someone and married...i guess it is disgusting when a girl not virgin before marriage...unless i consider you can have sex with your future husband before marriage, because u are absolutely sure that you will create the family together...and by the way...the woman's duty is to give birth to a child...she has to be healthy...but not every woman who had an intim life is soo healthy...

[Artsakhtsi]

Originally posted by armflower Sex before marrige? hmm...no...

I think that there has to be only a one man in the life of any armenian lady...and that man has to become her husband...i don't approve sex before marriage with different men..i think it's xxxutiun...it is so wonderfull to realize that you belong only to one man, that he is the first in your life and the last one...that you didn't sleep with a lot of men and then found someone and married...i guess it is disgusting when a girl not virgin before marriage...unless i consider you can have sex with your future husband before marriage, because u are absolutely sure that you will create the family together...and by the way...the woman's duty is to give birth to a child...she has to be healthy...but not every woman who had an intim life is soo healthy...

No offence, but,that is the most lame answer i've ever seen. I mean, disgusting ?
hahaha