Armenian Girlfriends!

[Lucin]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

Yes, just be yourself. Have self-confidence, be comfortable in your skin. Your character's psyche, traits are exposed in your gestures, reactions, words flying out of your mouth, etc. Nothing would attract me more to a man than his character and intelligence. The rest is just secondary...

[Anush]

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You know guys, we are really not so difficult as all this. Just be yourself, easy.

[Mizzike]

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Girls are girls. I think we spend too much time thinking of them as unattainable god-like objects. They're just girls.

This.

[Sako]

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Come on guys, don't be Johnny Raincloud on him. Vig, stop hating yourself, stop doubting yourself, etc. Most disorders come from the mind and for no reason, too. Stop thinking you can't do something or your something because soon, it may be true. Just relax, if you have it worse then a million guys, you have it better then millions of others. You just kinda go through a lot at the moment, and its your fault. Make it right, start thinking about other things then sex and try to get near a girl for once without thinking of sex. You are NOT retarded and no one can make you feel retarded besides yourself.

[One-Way]

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Am i retarded or something?

Yes.

[Vigilante]

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^I think you might be right, about everything.

From most topics to being serious.

My friend said that I have an adult body, but the mind of a child, which i donno if its true.

It probably is.

xxxx man. Am i retarded or something? Like, do you guys think i might have a disorder and need help or something? I do think i might have ADHD and OCD, but a really minor OCD, and yeah. I donno....

:/

[Sako]

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I think Vig hit a record for "WRITER OF MOST FEMALE RELATED TOPICS". Not that its wrong or anything. I just hope he takes the step instead of asking about all of them and not taking one. My advice, according to Sip's opinion, which was very true, is this. Don't give up on dreams but be realistic. Something I would really like you to try because you pretty much tried EVERYTHING in the book, is find someone special that you would truly caress and love, even as a girlfriend or someone very close and not necessarily to make her your wife, and go to the end. Don't give up on her. Then come on the forums and let's talk about different occasions or events that are going to come up between you two. I think we could really spice things up especially because you would really care for that girl and could make her happy naturally, not artificially. It has to come from your heart. It hasn't been coming from there lately and that's why you don't get any girls, I say this without any doubts.

Once you become serious, girls will take you seriously, I'm dead serious.

[Lucin]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

First of all be nice.

Second of all there's nothing wrong with being friendly. Don't think of "friendship" as some sort of bad thing.

The more friends you have that are cute girls, the easier it'll be for you to meet a lot more girls and hang out with them. So it is definitely NOT a bad thing to know girls even just as "friends" (whatever that means).

The rest is pretty easy ... and it usually starts of as you asking the girl out for something ... doesn't even matter what. Coffee, dinner, movie, beach, whatever.

The answer you get back will tell you exactly what you can expect. If she says "yes" then great. If she says "no", you have some work to figure out what that really means. If the answer is a clear no (most often it won't be very direct), then that's it. But if the answer is vague, then give it some time and try again. If every time you try (a couple times or so) she has an excuse, with no hint that "try again", then that's it. Just move on.

But if there is a hint to try again, then do it! Hints can be in the form of "oh maybe some other time" or "I'll take a raincheck" or something similar. But if she is washing her hair, or her granmother died, or she has relatives visiting (with no hints that maybe you should ask again), that's your clue that she is not interested.

Very well-said. It's true to a great extent. Had I not known you, I would have thought some girl has said this.

[Vigilante]

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True, good point.

I haven't approached an armenian girl yet wanting to be more then just friends, but I think I should just be friends with them first, right? Cause I don't even have a lot of armenian female friends to begin with, so I think that thats the best thing to do now.

=]

[MrHyeSev]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

Vig I think you need to start off as friends, & if it works out go for it if not move on to the next one, your not going to find a gf in one day, or shes not gonna fall in love with you the first day that only happens in movies.