Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....
Wow, I see lots of disagreement.
AnoushA, It’s great you have such high opinion of Armenian men. I agree there are exceptions but let’s return to the main issue here. To suggest that in general Armenian men are not the way I described them is foolish and an overestimation. Ironically that overestimation is going to polish the egos of all the men that are the way I described them and encourage them to be the way they are. I am going to stick to the fact that the majority of Armenian men are chauvinists who have become to be such because their parents unconsciously have raised them that way. Chauvinist idea are deeply embedded in our society. Let me give you examples, a lot of parents are OK when their sons start dating or even start having sex before getting married. Yet the same scenario is observed very rarely with the daughters. Daughter on top of school work and part time jobs are encouraged to start doing house work from early age yet guys are not. Instead of praising the few exceptions we should be focusing on the majority who are still so narrow minded that they would search for a virgin wife with the ridiculous excuse that they are “pure” yet they xxxx like chimpanzees with anything that says YES. If we leave out these “little details” and don’t solve them I agree with you that we are going to see lots of interracial marriages. But it will be the women not wanting to have anything in common with Armenian men.
Ara87, I agree about the exceptions, my brother is one of them, yet surprisingly he supports my observations of most Armenian men, lightly said, to be just a little more chauvinist than any other race. A great example is men having sex all they want before marriage and then refusing non-virgin wife. Armenian men along side Muslim and some other conservative races are the only ones still thinking in these terms till these days.
Now you all can deny this all you want. But the facts are out there. The problem is that people overlook them on daily bases and live in denial.
Now I don’t expect too many Armenian men to agree since obviously I am targeting most but not all in negative way. But I truly hope I gave you some food for thought, AnoushA
Wow, I see lots of disagreement.
AnoushA, It’s great you have such high opinion of Armenian men. I agree there are exceptions but let’s return to the main issue here. To suggest that in general Armenian men are not the way I described them is foolish and an overestimation. Ironically that overestimation is going to polish the egos of all the men that are the way I described them and encourage them to be the way they are. I am going to stick to the fact that the majority of Armenian men are chauvinists who have become to be such because their parents unconsciously have raised them that way. Chauvinist idea are deeply embedded in our society. Let me give you examples, a lot of parents are OK when their sons start dating or even start having sex before getting married. Yet the same scenario is observed very rarely with the daughters. Daughter on top of school work and part time jobs are encouraged to start doing house work from early age yet guys are not. Instead of praising the few exceptions we should be focusing on the majority who are still so narrow minded that they would search for a virgin wife with the ridiculous excuse that they are “pure” yet they xxxx like chimpanzees with anything that says YES. If we leave out these “little details” and don’t solve them I agree with you that we are going to see lots of interracial marriages. But it will be the women not wanting to have anything in common with Armenian men.
Ara87, I agree about the exceptions, my brother is one of them, yet surprisingly he supports my observations of most Armenian men, lightly said, to be just a little more chauvinist than any other race. A great example is men having sex all they want before marriage and then refusing non-virgin wife. Armenian men along side Muslim and some other conservative races are the only ones still thinking in these terms till these days.
Now you all can deny this all you want. But the facts are out there. The problem is that people overlook them on daily bases and live in denial.
Now I don’t expect too many Armenian men to agree since obviously I am targeting most but not all in negative way. But I truly hope I gave you some food for thought, AnoushA
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